More Or Less Interest In Sex

[quote="dadamaja"]Hey there. I have lost my interest in sex. I find sex very hard to handle right now. I have no desire at all. My husband who is 5 years younger can’t understand what I am going trough. I am very nervous and anxious and I need help and support from women who are going trough the same. Please, can you tell me what about you? Have u had these problems? How your partner managed to handle all of this? Did he give you support? How are you girls feeling?

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[/quoteI'm going through the same thing but my fiance is 4 years older than me but I think its because I'm 43 and just had a baby 3 years ago and I just don't have any energy. I wish I could find out if its hormones or whats going on]

I am on the other end of this I may be pre menapausal and my drive is overwhelming to my guy who is 9 years my senior I am 46 .....so I probly know more about your husbands thoughts on it than yours .....and I can tell you that communication is a must be honest and no blame game ....and just because you have no inclination help him a little for love sake .....he does not deserve to be cut off for no fault of his own ? just saying yes you have your reasons but they are not his fault ...so throw him a bone and ask him for support in this for patience ...be a couple through this ..good luck.wazzywoman

hello i am 36 years old i have also lost interest in sex. I dont know if its me or my husband. But we havent had sex in three months. I do know however that we have six children and we never really get any alone time and we both work out side of the home. So by evening time im exausted so that may be something to do with it. But ill tell ya at times i feel lonely and lost and we have many arguements over sex i dont know why but we do. I try to please him when ever he wants me too he is also four years younger than me and has a bad leg which he hurt in a car accident so i dont expect much from him just some love is all i really want. So if anyone has any advise on what i should do please do so.