Joined: 26 Jun 2007 Posts: 8 Location: Philippines
Pain During Sex Posted: 06-26-07 19:03pm
my boyfriend and i do the doggy style
every time we have sex..
there are times that its painful..
and there are times that its not..
the question is..
why would i feel pain at times?
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Llewellyn
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jan 2007 Posts: 1743 Location: NY
Posted: 06-26-07 19:11pm
The most common cause of pain during sex
is lack of lubrication. You could buy a
water-based lubricant at the store and see
if that makes a difference.
Also make sure you are relaxed. Being
tense is the second most common cause of
pain.
Some positions hurt for some women because
they allow the penis to hit the cervix.
Your cervix actually moves throughout the
month. So sometimes it is easier for the
penis or fingers to hit it, while other
times it is more difficult for them to hit
it. So that's another possible reason for
why it hurts sometimes and not others. If
some positions hurt due to hitting your
cervix, there is not too much you can do
other than avoid those positions at those
times.
When a woman feels pain during sex, she
should let her ob-gyn know. The vast
majority of the time it's something she
can fix on her own by simply relaxing or
getting a lubricant, but pain can also be
a sign of gynecological issues such as
infection.
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beegz_bani
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Jun 2007 Posts: 8 Location: Philippines
Geeeeeeeeeeeeeezz.. Posted: 06-26-07 19:16pm
Llewellyn
wrote:
The most common cause of
pain during sex is lack of lubrication.
You could buy a water-based lubricant at
the store and see if that makes a
difference.
Also make sure you are relaxed. Being
tense is the second most common cause of
pain.
Some positions hurt for some women because
they allow the penis to hit the cervix.
Your cervix actually moves throughout the
month. So sometimes it is easier for the
penis or fingers to hit it, while other
times it is more difficult for them to hit
it. So that's another possible reason for
why it hurts sometimes and not others. If
some positions hurt due to hitting your
cervix, there is not too much you can do
other than avoid those positions at those
times.
When a woman feels pain during sex, she
should let her ob-gyn know. The vast
majority of the time it's something she
can fix on her own by simply relaxing or
getting a lubricant, but pain can also be
a sign of gynecological issues such as
infection.
hmmmmm.. now i get it! thanks:)
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Doriz
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 May 2007 Posts: 45 Location: jersey
Posted: 06-26-07 21:24pm
i have the same problem. It kind of feels
like he's pushing against my bladder sort
of. I always try to relax and its ok for a
little bit but then i can't handle it
anymore so i just tell him to switch
positions. I get disappointed because i
know he likes doggy and i want to please
him too.
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baby_cat
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Jun 2007 Posts: 5
Posted: 06-27-07 01:34am
this depends on what you are doing....
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nickynickynicky
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Jul 2007 Posts: 11
Posted: 07-12-07 00:42am
Doggy style has the deepest penetration
because the man's pelvis is pushed right
up against the bone. It is common in some
couples for head of the man's penis to hit
up against the cervix when she is being
penetrated from the rear. Most women's
vaginas will adapt to the deeper
penetration and extend to accomodate it.
If it's painful, the only solution is to
go back to doing it from the front where
the penetration is not as deep.
