Losing Sex Drive After Sex Posted: 06-26-07 10:23am
hey, i said id find out something for my
friend if at all possible(it really is for
friend) after he masturbates or has sex he
completly loses his drive, cant really get
it going agin for a second/third time.
any suggestions please
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MikeH90
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Re: Friend Has Problem Posted: 06-26-07 11:20am
veryupset
wrote:
hey, i said id find out
something for my friend if at all
possible(it really is for friend) after he
masturbates or has sex he completly loses
his drive, cant really get it going agin
for a second/third time.
any suggestions
please
there is a refractionary period (recovery
time) plus the older you get the longer it
takes to recover.
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aszalajka
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Posted: 06-26-07 12:04pm
it takes my bf a bit to recover for a
second time, and i know i would be denied
a third time LOL. usually my bf an i will
wait a couple hours before we go for a
second round, and i know its different for
all guys. some guys can wait a of mins
others its an hour or longer.
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Llewellyn
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Posted: 06-26-07 12:08pm
That's normal.
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HealthySex
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Joined: 09 Jan 2007 Posts: 414
Posted: 06-27-07 14:55pm
That's a normal refractory period that
most men experience. Many women do as
well, but some do not have the refractory
period and are able to move on to multiple
orgasms without a break in stimulation.
It's natural, chemical, and perfectly
normal.
Sometimes it could be cut shorter if you
try to become aroused again. Often times I
just relax with my partner naked and don't
even think to try again, but eventually I
get an erection again. However, if I
purposefully engage in more activity even
though I'm not aroused, I will gain
arousal and erection again faster. I don't
mean activity with the purpose of
regaining erection, just continuing sex in
one way or another.
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Stan
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Posted: 06-27-07 20:58pm
Yep, definitely normal. Male testosterone
levels drop significanly right after sex
and can take up to eight hours to return
to normal.
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lawilkin
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Joined: 28 Jun 2007 Posts: 2
It's Normal Posted: 06-28-07 16:48pm
almost all guys have to wait a while
before they can have sex again. It's a
biological thing, don't worry about it.
It's not your (his) fault.
