me and my girl both love having sex but we
both think that its getting kinda boring.
kinda like its a routine.
can someone help me spice it up some?
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Tylanas
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Posted: 06-25-07 23:23pm
Try sex toys. Try different positions, try
talking dirty. How about food play?
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Azure777
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Apr 2007 Posts: 167 Location: gloucester city NJ
Posted: 06-26-07 00:24am
try surprising here... tell her you want
to show her something and lead her to a
private room some where in the house and
just start your thing... when it's spur of
the moment and in a "naughty" place it can
get pretty exciting
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Doriz
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 May 2007 Posts: 45 Location: jersey
Posted: 06-26-07 21:33pm
try incorporating food into it... whipped
cream, chocolate syrup, strawberries.. but
surprise her with it. Don't let her know
your gunna do it. Try experimenting with
different positions.. buy a book that
helps you with that. Go to a store where
they sell sex toys... mabey even buy a
porn and masturbate together. After seeing
her get off on her own.. try to help her
out next time. Or you can even try to act
out what the porn is doing... role play.
hope that helped!!!
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baby_cat
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Jun 2007 Posts: 5
Posted: 06-27-07 01:34am
do it after a romantic dinner or you can
watch erotic films to produce the
excitement....
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grmc3
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Jun 2007 Posts: 8 Location: DFW, TEXAS
Take Care of Her Posted: 06-27-07 18:20pm
You have to be willing to try different
things. My wife and I have sex almost
every day, and even the slightest change
can make all the difference in the world.
May I suggest non intercourse sex, like
you masterbating for her or each other or
you just masterbating her. Be happy to
take care of her needs and not yours. If
you are just doing it for you climaxing
then, yes, it will get boring and she will
get tired of feeling left out. Last night
I gave my wife a seductive massage, oral
sex, then fingered her to ejaculation. I
took my time and cued in on her to know
where to go next. She ejaculated about two
cups worth of female ejaculate. I felt so
good about making her orgasm so much I was
happy enough with that, I didn't need to
masterbate. I agree with the others, also.
If the two of you are into movies try
them. It may sound silly, but we watched
the Better Sex dvd series and we think
they are better than porn because they are
less staged sex. Porn is just rough staged
sex, seems unreal and impersonal, and
corny. Even though the Better Sex is a
information video series, it is actually
quite good, and it gives you new
techniques and things to try.
