guys i need help.
on the month of April i had my first sexual intercourse with a 'sex worker'.
i wore a condom, but before that, i just lost my mind and forgotten to put it on during my first penetration attempt, i didn't penetrate though and I'm scared that i may be infected when i was fingering her vagina and i don't remember whether i have any cuts on my fingers.

will i be infected by just trying(unable) to penetrate without a condom.? how are my chances of getting HIV.?

if my fingers have small cuts(the part of your fingers where your fingernails grow from) and her vaginal fluids weren't that many, will i get infected.? is the amount of vaginal fluids of a HIV positive woman that comes in contact to a small cut matter? e.g the more fluid that goes through the cut the more chance of getting HIV and likewise.?

please reply, i really need all your advice...

thanx....