Well,I guess start from the begining.Um,what is your hubby like?what do you think will be his reaction to this?do you think you may be able to talk through it?Just be prepared to handle his response after you tell him.

just be up front and honest dont try to make excuses.


i hope you told your b/f, lover whatever he is that your telling your husband about him.warn him ahead of time.

that is just so harsh, im sorry but why wouldnt you have just left him first. Think of how unfair this is to him!!! I effing hate cheaters. Just call him, right now, and say youve been cheating on him and that you are sorry but its over. It doesnt even matter if you hurt him when you say it, you are hurting him WAY more by not telling him. Trust me, I have been cheated on my by daughters dad for about 5 years now and he still tries to deny it. I've managed to figure it out on my own. Him keeping it a secret from me is the worst feeling in the world.

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i wouldnt bother telling your husband that you're having an affair, you obviously arn't happy with him, just carry on doing what your doing, if he finds out you've been saved a job to do by having to tell him. x

what the hell??? Im guessing you dont have a partner or any friends if this is how you treat people!! He has done nothing wrong.... Her on the other hand....... He deserves someone so much better than you, you obviously dont love him, start respecting him by leaving him to find someone better that he does deserve! I effing hate cheaters too and think they give the rest of us good people bad names!