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Bridget

replied on June 23rd, 2007

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have you tested? you could be worrying over nothing.

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misskbabie19

replied on June 23rd, 2007

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IHeartMyBostonTerrier wrote:

have you tested? you could be worrying over nothing.

not yet.
but, all signs point to yes so far.

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Bridget

replied on June 23rd, 2007

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what are the signs? have you missed your period?

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misskbabie19

replied on June 23rd, 2007

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IHeartMyBostonTerrier wrote:

what are the signs? have you missed your period?

yeah, i should have gotten it the 19th. [we had sex the 4th; my last period was the week of may 19th]

it started off when i was in europe. the first week i was fine, eating and sleeping more than normal but we chalked it up to jetlag. the second week i was dizzy for no reason and kept getting nauseous. this week, we came home on the 18th. the 19th [which was my birthday]; i had zero appetite and felt nauseous the whole day, finally around 6-7pm, with zero warning i just started puking [for the record i NEVER throw up or get throw sicknesses]. the next day i was nauseous a few times but nothing major. yesterday as i was getting ready for work around noon i threw up a few times then went to work and threw up right after i got there. i also had some spotting that night [i peed and when i wiped it was kinda light pink like i was gonna get my period then the next time i peed there was nothing].

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young Girl

replied on June 23rd, 2007

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well the symptoms are hard to catcha t first
it could be a urinary tract infection even
i think you should test asap
thats the only way to really "know" for sure

and i understand what ya meen about the father thing. just tell him and be honest
tel him your not gunna end up like "her" and if he has a problem then screw him... you dont need any negative people in your life right now

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HcoBrunette06

replied on June 23rd, 2007

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just test, if you're late for your period then go ahead and test, if it comes out negative then wait for a litte bit longer and test again, if it's negative then you're probably not pregnant.

and that's stupid of him to be mad at you, he had sex with you (whether it was protected i do not know) but he knew the consequence, so let him be mad, you didn't do this yourself.

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young Girl

replied on June 23rd, 2007

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HcoBrunette06 wrote:

just test, if you're late for your period then go ahead and test, if it comes out negative then wait for a litte bit longer and test again, if it's negative then you're probably not pregnant.

and that's stupid of him to be mad at you, he had sex with you (whether it was protected i do not know) but he knew the consequence, so let him be mad, you didn't do this yourself.

i agree and you know what i think
if he alreayd has a kid...and him and the girl whom he had it with are not together anymore
the same might happen to you
why did they break up after they had a baby together? seems irrisponsibe to me and maybe he doesnt wanta baby? if hes gunna be mad about it then he doesnt want kids obviously

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misskbabie19

replied on June 23rd, 2007

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the_girlfreind wrote:

well the symptoms are hard to catcha t first
it could be a urinary tract infection even
i think you should test asap
thats the only way to really "know" for sure

and i understand what ya meen about the father thing. just tell him and be honest
tel him your not gunna end up like "her" and if he has a problem then screw him... you dont need any negative people in your life right now

uti's generally have burning and pain associated i have none of that.

yeah, i know he will be there just its a hard thing to tell him.

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young Girl

replied on June 23rd, 2007

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yeah i just hope it all goes well and he doesnt give you a hard time
and dont even stress about it until you test first and like hcobrunette said...twice is even better

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misskbabie19

replied on June 23rd, 2007

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HcoBrunette06 wrote:

just test, if you're late for your period then go ahead and test, if it comes out negative then wait for a litte bit longer and test again, if it's negative then you're probably not pregnant.

and that's stupid of him to be mad at you, he had sex with you (whether it was protected i do not know) but he knew the consequence, so let him be mad, you didn't do this yourself.

yeah, i am definately going to test but, im totally broke at the moment so i have to wait til i get paid to either get a test or go to the dr.

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young Girl

replied on June 23rd, 2007

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misskbabie19 wrote:

HcoBrunette06 wrote:

just test, if you're late for your period then go ahead and test, if it comes out negative then wait for a litte bit longer and test again, if it's negative then you're probably not pregnant.

and that's stupid of him to be mad at you, he had sex with you (whether it was protected i do not know) but he knew the consequence, so let him be mad, you didn't do this yourself.

yeah, i am definately going to test but, im totally broke at the moment so i have to wait til i get paid to either get a test or go to the dr.

planned parenthood does it fo free :]

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misskbabie19

replied on June 23rd, 2007

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the_girlfreind wrote:

HcoBrunette06 wrote:

just test, if you're late for your period then go ahead and test, if it comes out negative then wait for a litte bit longer and test again, if it's negative then you're probably not pregnant.

and that's stupid of him to be mad at you, he had sex with you (whether it was protected i do not know) but he knew the consequence, so let him be mad, you didn't do this yourself.

i agree and you know what i think
if he alreayd has a kid...and him and the girl whom he had it with are not together anymore
the same might happen to you
why did they break up after they had a baby together? seems irrisponsibe to me and maybe he doesnt wanta baby? if hes gunna be mad about it then he doesnt want kids obviously

we are not together.[its a difficult situation to explain and its all caused by this girl in a nutshell]
id rather not say the reason why they broke up because its a long story and i dont want him to be unfairly judged because it does make him look bad if you dont know their whole relationship history. basically she was evil and emotionally/mentally/physically abusive and he thought he was in love and it ended up with an incident and they broke up.

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young Girl

replied on June 23rd, 2007

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misskbabie19 wrote:

the_girlfreind wrote:

HcoBrunette06 wrote:

just test, if you're late for your period then go ahead and test, if it comes out negative then wait for a litte bit longer and test again, if it's negative then you're probably not pregnant.

and that's stupid of him to be mad at you, he had sex with you (whether it was protected i do not know) but he knew the consequence, so let him be mad, you didn't do this yourself.

i agree and you know what i think
if he alreayd has a kid...and him and the girl whom he had it with are not together anymore
the same might happen to you
why did they break up after they had a baby together? seems irrisponsibe to me and maybe he doesnt wanta baby? if hes gunna be mad about it then he doesnt want kids obviously

we are not together.[its a difficult situation to explain and its all caused by this girl in a nutshell]
id rather not say the reason why they broke up because its a long story and i dont want him to be unfairly judged because it does make him look bad if you dont know their whole relationship history. basically she was evil and emotionally/mentally/physically abusive and he thought he was in love and it ended up with an incident and they broke up.

i understand those long stories get hard to tell over and over again.
well. all i can say is good luck and if ya ever need anything just let me know
PM or email me either way im here for ya
and if you ARE pregnant what will your parents say? would they be supportive or utterly mad?

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misskbabie19

replied on June 23rd, 2007

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the_girlfreind wrote:

misskbabie19 wrote:

HcoBrunette06 wrote:

just test, if you're late for your period then go ahead and test, if it comes out negative then wait for a litte bit longer and test again, if it's negative then you're probably not pregnant.

and that's stupid of him to be mad at you, he had sex with you (whether it was protected i do not know) but he knew the consequence, so let him be mad, you didn't do this yourself.

yeah, i am definately going to test but, im totally broke at the moment so i have to wait til i get paid to either get a test or go to the dr.

planned parenthood does it fo free :]

not in arizona.
here you can get title x or whatever but its still $10 and since i am still under my parents insurance i have to pay a different amount [not sure exactly what it is] plus the office visit which is $40 in itself. but the biggest problem with that is making the appointment, since you have to call a call center your appointment can get bumped off the schedule at any time. so its a hassle.
i know, excuses, excuses. plus im scared Mad

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misskbabie19

replied on June 23rd, 2007

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the_girlfreind wrote:

misskbabie19 wrote:

the_girlfreind wrote:

HcoBrunette06 wrote:

just test, if you're late for your period then go ahead and test, if it comes out negative then wait for a litte bit longer and test again, if it's negative then you're probably not pregnant.

and that's stupid of him to be mad at you, he had sex with you (whether it was protected i do not know) but he knew the consequence, so let him be mad, you didn't do this yourself.

i agree and you know what i think
if he alreayd has a kid...and him and the girl whom he had it with are not together anymore
the same might happen to you
why did they break up after they had a baby together? seems irrisponsibe to me and maybe he doesnt wanta baby? if hes gunna be mad about it then he doesnt want kids obviously

we are not together.[its a difficult situation to explain and its all caused by this girl in a nutshell]
id rather not say the reason why they broke up because its a long story and i dont want him to be unfairly judged because it does make him look bad if you dont know their whole relationship history. basically she was evil and emotionally/mentally/physically abusive and he thought he was in love and it ended up with an incident and they broke up.

i understand those long stories get hard to tell over and over again.
well. all i can say is good luck and if ya ever need anything just let me know
PM or email me either way im here for ya
and if you ARE pregnant what will your parents say? would they be supportive or utterly mad?

yeah it kills me to tell it, i cry and everything.
thanks, that means alotttttt right now, really.
my dad will cry, probably. my mom will get mad at first and tell me im irresponsible and all that stuff. in the end i know they will support me and help me out and i think the rest of my family will and i know that his family will help cuz they love me too.

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young Girl

replied on June 23rd, 2007

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misskbabie19 wrote:

the_girlfreind wrote:

misskbabie19 wrote:

HcoBrunette06 wrote:

just test, if you're late for your period then go ahead and test, if it comes out negative then wait for a litte bit longer and test again, if it's negative then you're probably not pregnant.

and that's stupid of him to be mad at you, he had sex with you (whether it was protected i do not know) but he knew the consequence, so let him be mad, you didn't do this yourself.

yeah, i am definately going to test but, im totally broke at the moment so i have to wait til i get paid to either get a test or go to the dr.

planned parenthood does it fo free :]

not in arizona.
here you can get title x or whatever but its still $10 and since i am still under my parents insurance i have to pay a different amount [not sure exactly what it is] plus the office visit which is $40 in itself. but the biggest problem with that is making the appointment, since you have to call a call center your appointment can get bumped off the schedule at any time. so its a hassle.
i know, excuses, excuses. plus im scared Mad

yeah well if your undre 18 and you go to the doctor they HAVE to call your parents first before they do anything on you
so if you wanna test just buy one at walgreens or something
get the clearblue test
i got that
its really easy and they come 2 in a box so you can take 2 of them to make sure
i think theyre like $15 or maybe even cheaper
if u need anything personally heres my e mail [removed- please stop posting your email. this seems like the 15th time that i've had to remove it. if someone wants to contact you they can pm you.]
and im suxy btw
16 and 15 weeks as of today :]

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misskbabie19

replied on June 23rd, 2007

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the_girlfreind wrote:

misskbabie19 wrote:

the_girlfreind wrote:

misskbabie19 wrote:

HcoBrunette06 wrote:

just test, if you're late for your period then go ahead and test, if it comes out negative then wait for a litte bit longer and test again, if it's negative then you're probably not pregnant.

and that's stupid of him to be mad at you, he had sex with you (whether it was protected i do not know) but he knew the consequence, so let him be mad, you didn't do this yourself.

yeah, i am definately going to test but, im totally broke at the moment so i have to wait til i get paid to either get a test or go to the dr.

planned parenthood does it fo free :]

not in arizona.
here you can get title x or whatever but its still $10 and since i am still under my parents insurance i have to pay a different amount [not sure exactly what it is] plus the office visit which is $40 in itself. but the biggest problem with that is making the appointment, since you have to call a call center your appointment can get bumped off the schedule at any time. so its a hassle.
i know, excuses, excuses. plus im scared Mad

yeah well if your undre 18 and you go to the doctor they HAVE to call your parents first before they do anything on you
so if you wanna test just buy one at walgreens or something
get the clearblue test
i got that
its really easy and they come 2 in a box so you can take 2 of them to make sure
i think theyre like $15 or maybe even cheaper
if u need anything personally heres my e mail [removed- please stop posting your email. this seems like the 15th time that i've had to remove it. if someone wants to contact you they can pm you.]
and im suxy btw
16 and 15 weeks as of today :]

im 19 so i can do it without my parents knowing but im not that worried about it. yeah when i get paid im gonna get one of the at home tests cuz i work at walgreens lol so i get 15% off. but i have no cash til next friday.
im kara.
aww, im kinda hoping i am pregnant. i have always wanted a baby. i dunno if im ready tho but if i am i will have to be. i think i have caught baby fever from my friends haha ughh.

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young Girl

replied on June 23rd, 2007

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yeah mine wa a shock
well my boyfreind knew before i did
he kept saying "i think ur pregnant" and we have lived together since january so were together 24/7
i found out during easter
travis bought me those tests and we took it together in the bathroom
when it came back positive we were shocked and thats when it hit us
since then its been wonderful
all the famly is happy except my grandma...lol but travis has gotten me a baby swing and crib and exersaucer thingy already...lol hes exited :]
we find out on the 2nd if its a boy or girl
im hopeing boy...but either way we will be happy :]
we picked out the names kristen taylor for a girl and matthew for a boy
lol sorry im telling you my whole life story but im supre exited all of a sudden
good luck and i hope it all goes well
:]

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misskbabie19

replied on June 25th, 2007

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the_girlfreind wrote:

yeah mine wa a shock
well my boyfreind knew before i did
he kept saying "i think ur pregnant" and we have lived together since january so were together 24/7
i found out during easter
travis bought me those tests and we took it together in the bathroom
when it came back positive we were shocked and thats when it hit us
since then its been wonderful
all the famly is happy except my grandma...lol but travis has gotten me a baby swing and crib and exersaucer thingy already...lol hes exited :]
we find out on the 2nd if its a boy or girl
im hopeing boy...but either way we will be happy :]
we picked out the names kristen taylor for a girl and matthew for a boy
lol sorry im telling you my whole life story but im supre exited all of a sudden
good luck and i hope it all goes well
:]

awww thats so sweet. lucky for you to have a guy whos excited about it, that seems rare these days.
right now its not going well. at all. the dads mother now hates my guts because her son didnt call me the other day when we were supposed to chill and i waited around all day for him and finally i got sick of it and his friend happened to call me and asked if i wanted to come hang out with him and his brother and nephew and brothers friend and when myshe asked who i was with i told her and she doesnt like this guy i was hanging out with and she flipped out saying i was a prostitute and a promiscuous person and she accused me of stealing from their old apt which they got evicted from because i went tp where her son was staying to see him but he wasnt there. ugh just drama and now she is saying she is going to make sure her son never speaks to me again and saying she is gonna tun him against me. :'(

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