It has been a while, but I have since been able to find the reason for my problems. Now it may be true that these problems would have been hidden forever if I never got a vasectomy , but with some really frank soul-searching, I did have some of these problems before my vasectomy.
My problems were being caused by two things:
severe sleep apnea: after being tested, I was told that I stopped breathing 170+ times that night (5 hours sleep). Before, I would never wake up with erection, but now when I wear my mask, I wake up with an erection 100%.
Severe allergy to dust mites: it just so happened that I moved into my current home which has wall-to-wall carpeting just before getting my vasectomy. Well, I have not before lived in a home with carpeting, and after getting two sinus infections just a few months apart, my doctor suggested that I might have allergies. He gave me a sample of allegra, and, I kid you not â it may have well have been a sample of viagra. The change was that immediate and that apparent. That prompted me to go to an allergist, and he discovered that I have about as severe an allergy as he has ever seen to dust mite poop.
These days, I have no problems in the bedroom (except for two little children that won't stay out of our bed!). Like I said before, these problems may have been brought to the surface by my vasectomy, but they had to have been there before in some amount. I have to say that I now think that have the vasectomy has made no difference in me physically, and now that I know what my problems actually were, mentally and emotionally as well.