Women Having Orgasims During Intercourse Posted: 06-22-07 11:19am
Hello everyone...
I have been having sex with my boyfriend
for two years now, and in thouse two years
I have never been able to have an orgasim
while he is inside of me. Both of us
really want that to happen and we have
tried a few things but it never seems to
work, or he comes before I am even
stimulated. I was just wondering if anyone
could help us.
Before recently I never had an orgasim at
all, but I got over being shy in front of
him and when we are done having
intercourse he will let me put my legs
back together and I do it for myself while
he is kissing me. It's great, but he wants
to feel me come while inside of me and to
be honest I want him to feel it too. I
just can't seem to figure out how to do
it.
When we are having intercourse in the
"doggy" position it seems to feel better
but in a different way than stimulating my
clit. But even if I could have an orgasim
that way I deffinatly want to have one in
the missionary style...(more romantic I
guess).
Can anyone explain in detail how I can
make that happen?
Thanks and much appreciated...
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Llewellyn
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jan 2007 Posts: 1743 Location: NY
Posted: 06-22-07 12:46pm
If you justed starting orgasming, then you
just might need a little more time to
learn about yourself. You could show your
partner what you do when you masturbate.
He could try to give you that feeling with
manual or oral sex. More women orgasm
during oral sex than any other way. That
might help you both learn a bit about your
body.
From there, you can apply that knowledge
to having sex. For some women, it's not
at all difficult to have clitoral
stimulation naturally during intercourse
just from the motion of it. For other
women, it's not quite as easy, but they
get around that by using their hands,
having their partner use his/her hands, or
using a toy.