Interact with them when you are angry. If
they do something that upsets you walk
away. The worst thing you can do is say
or do something that when you calm down
you will regret.
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mc4ever02replied on June 22nd, 2007
Supporter
Make your child feel as though they are
worthless.
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Willa Weintraubreplied on June 22nd, 2007
Extremely EHEALTHy
-make them feel unwanted or like they are
only a problem to you.
-teach them that they have to be perfect.
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Mommy35replied on June 22nd, 2007
Extremely EHEALTHy
~*~Melissa~*~
wrote:
-
-teach them that they have to be
perfect.
so important.
A parent should also never compare kids.
"you should be more like your sister",
"why can't you be good like ___"
Grrrr
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sWeEtPeEwEereplied on June 22nd, 2007
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
never tell your child something that you
will feel sorry for saying later on... ive
heard of people telling their child that
they hated them and wished they were never
born... things that are said like these
can never be taken back and the child will
never forget it, they will remember it for
the rest of their lives and will not
forgive you for it so if they get you that
angry that you feel as if you are going to
say something hurtful lock yourself in
your room until you have calmed down and
then you can go and deal with the
situation.
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HcoBrunette06replied on June 22nd, 2007
Especially EHEALTHy
cuss at them
or
not protect them from someone else
because they're trying to make that other
person happy.
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sillyakchickreplied on June 22nd, 2007
Supporter
Parents should never be afraid to
apologize to their child or admit they
made a mistake.
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musikmakerreplied on June 22nd, 2007
Extremely EHEALTHy
Not show humility.
Try to live through their kids
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Tylanasreplied on June 22nd, 2007
Especially EHEALTHy
Physically/mentally abuse them.
I know a woman who taught her child the
alphabet and 1-10 backwards before the
child entered general school. Amusing?
Yes, until you learn that she didn't teach
the child how to do either thing
*forwards*, and taught the backwards
version as if it was the right way. She
did it for chucks and giggles. She got
arrested. I agree with the police.
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Willa Weintraubreplied on June 25th, 2007
Extremely EHEALTHy
Eiri
wrote:
Physically/mentally abuse
them.
I know a woman who taught her child the
alphabet and 1-10 backwards before the
child entered general school. Amusing?
Yes, until you learn that she didn't teach
the child how to do either thing
*forwards*, and taught the backwards
version as if it was the right way. She
did it for chucks and giggles. She got
arrested. I agree with the
police.
arrested for teaching
her child something backwards?
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Tylanasreplied on June 25th, 2007
Especially EHEALTHy
~*~Melissa~*~
wrote:
Eiri
wrote:
Physically/mentally abuse
them.
I know a woman who taught her child the
alphabet and 1-10 backwards before the
child entered general school. Amusing?
Yes, until you learn that she didn't teach
the child how to do either thing
*forwards*, and taught the backwards
version as if it was the right way. She
did it for chucks and giggles. She got
arrested. I agree with the
police.
arrested for teaching
her child something backwards?
The child got to school and thought he was
right. He couldn't add the way the teacher
was teaching, because his comprehension
was backwards. He couldn't say the
alphabet forwards with the rest of the
class because he didn't know it.
Can you imagine the humiliation for a
child on their first day of school to be
asked if he knew the abc's, and say them
backwards, and you think it's forwards,
and the teacher says "That's cute, but now
say it right?" Can you imagine that
child's confusion?
That's mental abuse.
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confused_girlreplied on June 25th, 2007
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
One thing a parent should never do is
neglect the child (ren) nor not let them
learn i.e. not going to school making them
stay home.
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rasuyoungreplied on June 25th, 2007
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
A parent should never tell their child
they hate them.
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sick_mama17replied on June 28th, 2007
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Call them a disrespectful demeaning name.
Stop protecting them.
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mamaTTreplied on June 28th, 2007
Extremely EHEALTHy
...put theirself before the child. Kids
and their needs should always come first.