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Q: My Boyfriend And Porn ?

asked by: ttaylor on June 21st, 2007

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Ok, I have been in a monogamous, wonderful 5 year relationship with my first love, and still going strong. Ever since we started dating I stay at his house every other night and on Saturday/Sunday. We have great sensational love making as well as freaky sex at least 2 or 3 times a week. It depends on how tried we are from school or work. He is not a manic or sex crazed man and he is pretty good about keeping his eyes to himself or on me in public. Sometimes he gets off on porn when it is not my night, but does not get off on porn all the time (he leaves the fluid towel on the floor or the evidence every time). He admits it and says he rather have me anytime. But I just wanted to know if that is normal for my committed partner to occasionally get off on it when I am not there? Please help/
TT

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Willa Weintraub

replied on June 21st, 2007

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Re: My Boyfriend And Porn?

ttaylor wrote:

Ok, I have been in a monogamous, wonderful 5 year relationship with my first love, and still going strong. Ever since we started dating I stay at his house every other night and on Saturday/Sunday. We have great sensational love making as well as freaky sex at least 2 or 3 times a week. It depends on how tried we are from school or work. He is not a manic or sex crazed man and he is pretty good about keeping his eyes to himself or on me in public. Sometimes he gets off on porn when it is not my night, but does not get off on porn all the time (he leaves the fluid towel on the floor or the evidence every time). He admits it and says he rather have me anytime. But I just wanted to know if that is normal for my committed partner to occasionally get off on it when I am not there? Please help/
TT

definetly normal!! you have a saint compared to most men hun! other men do it and hide it from their girlfriend and they are addicted.be thankful you got a good one!

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ttaylor

replied on June 22nd, 2007

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I Feel Better Now

I felt so insecure and wondered why he needed to get off on porn when I was not there. But you are right at least he admitts it and he does not do it al the time.

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Willa Weintraub

replied on June 22nd, 2007

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Re: I Feel Better Now

ttaylor wrote:

I felt so insecure and wondered why he needed to get off on porn when I was not there. But you are right at least he admitts it and he does not do it al the time.

I think thats every woman hun but its like a chic using a vibrator and thinking about a celeb or something. I love my bf and I find him very attractive but I still do it alone sometimes.same with men! It's just something to look at while they're doing it.No worries!

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WannaBigBabyBelly

replied on July 8th, 2007

New User

I would have to agree, porn is very normal, especially for men!! I know that my DH enjoys porn once in a while, thats why once a week, we watch it together!! at first I was uncomfortable with it, but its normal all men loves porn just like woman loves to have fun alone sometimes too!! I wouldnt worry girl, your sex life sounds too amazing to be worried...

Good luck.

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ladyT83

replied on July 9th, 2007

New User

Hehehe my boyfriend says he doesn't like porn... Rolling Eyes

Rolling Eyes

yea rite is all I say lol maybe he does maybe he doesn't but its normal for a guy to get off or just watch porn. One ex told me they do it cause if were busy.can't see them. Or can't spend the nite or have no way of getting together and if their feeling Randy they do it. Not cause they don't love is or like us anymore its just that were not available at the moment lol

Personally I like porn but my boyfriénd doesn't like it so I.ll respect his wishes Wink

Wink

lol

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Makoto

replied on July 12th, 2007

Experienced User

masturbating is normal. Now how do guys masturbate? They think of something sexually or look at something sexually or read something sexually. If I were you, you would want you BF to be looking and readning, and not fantasizing about other women.

Porn is totally ok. As long as the man preferrs women over porn any day. Once a man would prefer to have porn over a living being, be it a gf or not, then there are problems for that guy.

Pron is soooo goood.

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sillyakchick

replied on July 12th, 2007

Extremely eHealthy

I think this is pretty normal. As long as it doesn't interfere with his life or your relationship, it's probably OK. (I would request that he pick up his towel, though! LOL) The fact that he is open and honest with you shows that he respects you.

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Birch

replied on July 12th, 2007

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I have an odd little hang up about porn that I hate admitting.

And it's the prevalence of bj's in porn, and women who get splashed with the great white way all over their face. Do they enjoy that?

Does anyone enjoy that?

Is this setting up men with expectations that women really enjoy that?

Now, I know some women may like this, and that's fine, but I've never met anyone who did.

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young Girl

replied on July 12th, 2007

Especially eHealthy

Birch wrote:

I have an odd little hang up about porn that I hate admitting.

And it's the prevalence of bj's in porn, and women who get splashed with the great white way all over their face. Do they enjoy that?

Does anyone enjoy that?

Is this setting up men with expectations that women really enjoy that?

Now, I know some women may like this, and that's fine, but I've never met anyone who did.

nah the only thing i can watch is lesbians and threesomes.
im not into all that girl guy stuff

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sillyakchick

replied on July 13th, 2007

Extremely eHealthy

Birch wrote:

I have an odd little hang up about porn that I hate admitting.

And it's the prevalence of bj's in porn, and women who get splashed with the great white way all over their face. Do they enjoy that?

Does anyone enjoy that?

Is this setting up men with expectations that women really enjoy that?

Now, I know some women may like this, and that's fine, but I've never met anyone who did.

I never quite understood the money shot thing. What is that all about anyway?? Rolling Eyes

Rolling Eyes

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Makoto

replied on July 13th, 2007

Experienced User

some find it pleasurable.

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