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lostoyou
Experienced User
L know I post things a little too much but I have no one to talk to and this eating thing is just getting worse and worse. This is me just letting stuff go so there is no need to reply. I'm so sick of being this way I hate that I have an eating disorder and that my parents dont care. Well its not that they dont care they just think I am getting over it on my own, yeah right. I cant do this on my own its impossible but there is no one here that can help me. This such a caca disorder I really hate it. I have let everything go my school work and my life everything is out of controll. I'm stting here writing this when I have a 4 page essay that I has to be done for tommorow,see i'm stupid if I had any strenght or brains I would be doing my essay. 
and my friend came to me yesterday scared that she was pregant and I gave her the money to go to the doctor and everything and did she say thanks no I dont think so, well it doesnt matter she worried so I dont expect that from her thats what friends are for. Were are my friends they dont give a dame they complain to me that I have made our friendship weird and they dont fell they can even go out for a meal because I have a food issue. But they dont even try to help me and I understand that too because they have there own problems so its fine that they cant be there. Its nobodys fault but my own and I must remeber that. I must be soo stupid to oh I dont know I just am stupid and selllfish I hate this whole thing. Well that was a major vent pls dont even take a bit of notice to me I am stupid and just wanted to tell you alll that. 
and my friend came to me yesterday scared that she was pregant and I gave her the money to go to the doctor and everything and did she say thanks no I dont think so, well it doesnt matter she worried so I dont expect that from her thats what friends are for. Were are my friends they dont give a dame they complain to me that I have made our friendship weird and they dont fell they can even go out for a meal because I have a food issue. But they dont even try to help me and I understand that too because they have there own problems so its fine that they cant be there. Its nobodys fault but my own and I must remeber that. I must be soo stupid to oh I dont know I just am stupid and selllfish I hate this whole thing. Well that was a major vent pls dont even take a bit of notice to me I am stupid and just wanted to tell you alll that.
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cherim
New User
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lostoyou
Experienced User
Thanks cherim but you didnt need to reply. I needed to write that because I knew if I said it to someone I knew they would listen and take it seriously but i'm fine now because today I have finally gained a little control and that feeling of be out of control isnt there anymore(well for now). Your right about my parents they dont understand and they trust that I am getting better becuase thats what I tell them. It must of been hard for you to have dealt with this for so long but i'm glad you are getting better and growing stronger, I really admire you for that.
I was wondering if I could ask you a question about this girl I know. Today we had a fitness test in school and they weighed us and took our height and stuff like that, but this girl I kind of know i'm not friends with her actually I havent realy ever talked to her. Anyway I found out she was bulimic because she told me she didnt want to get weighted and from the way she was talking I think she has been doing this for a long time. It also seemed like nobody knew and I was thinking because I know what she is going through should I tell her she can talk to me whenever she needs a chat. You see I dont know her that well and I dont want her to feel like i'm intruding so I wasnt sure if I should say it. What you think should I just tell her that I amm going through the same thing so I understand and of she ever wants to talk i'm here?
I was wondering if I could ask you a question about this girl I know. Today we had a fitness test in school and they weighed us and took our height and stuff like that, but this girl I kind of know i'm not friends with her actually I havent realy ever talked to her. Anyway I found out she was bulimic because she told me she didnt want to get weighted and from the way she was talking I think she has been doing this for a long time. It also seemed like nobody knew and I was thinking because I know what she is going through should I tell her she can talk to me whenever she needs a chat. You see I dont know her that well and I dont want her to feel like i'm intruding so I wasnt sure if I should say it. What you think should I just tell her that I amm going through the same thing so I understand and of she ever wants to talk i'm here?
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cherim
New User
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Sparkles412
Experienced User
You said that your parents know but they don't care? Have you told them that you were better, and they think you are doing better? I'm sure that if you went to them and told them you needed help, that they would be glad to help you. If your friends don't care, then why do you bother with them? If they were your real friends, they would be there for you in a time like this. If you can't find anyone that will talk to you, go to your school nurse or call your doctor maybe they can help you. But most of all make sure you tell your parents, because they really need to know if you need help. It's good to vent so don't feel bad about writing on here, it's good for you to get it out. And I bet it feels even better to know that someone answered you. Don't give up on yourself, and I wish you the best of luck! Take care of yourself 
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