I agree!! have u tried charting you bbt, or using a ovulation test! I found that the clear blue easy works well because it shows a happy face if you are ov. and a sad face if your not! if you dont have the fertility monitor( which is very expensive) . I was told by my RE to babydance every other day after AF, and he showed me how to chart, and when your temp. rises about 2 degree's higher than normal let the babydancing began..Good luck girl!!