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Q: Pregnancy
asked by: pregnancyishard on March 2nd, 2004
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
As most of you know my story about me having a still birth misarriage on september 9.2003. Not that I have been trying to get pregnant but you know everybody has there thoughts!!! Ever since october me and my boyfriend have been having sex without a condom and im not drinking any pills i'm not getting pregnant and i'm worried I would want to have kids in the future! But i'm thinking that something could be wrong with me??? Crying or Very sad im worried and it has been 5 months having sex without anyy protection and nothing!! I really do need help and im thinking about going to my gynecologist so that I can get checked out and get some tests done but i'm scared to think that I wouldn't be able to have any kids
please help me if you know of any experiences or anything that can help me find out what's wrong with me please let me know!!!!!!!!!


Your friend truely
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allusivepond replied on March 2nd, 2004
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Hey sweety, im glad ur back and I hope ur doing better, ive never really experienced wot u have so I cant really offer any solid advice only that I think u should wait, it maybe the stress of conceiving that is preventing u from getting pregnant and not any medical problems, if u are really that concerned I would seek medical advice even if its to put ur fears at rest. I am in a similiar situation I was told many years ago I might not be able to have kids or that I would at least have trouble conceivin and im only on to month #2 but already im having fears and they wont look at doing any tests until about year of trying, till then I have to wait it out I guess.

The decision is urs and remember ur body went thru a huge ordeal so it might take a while to fully recover.

From someone who cant wait to have a jellybean all of their own
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sparkletots replied on March 3rd, 2004
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I totally know how you feel. It took my husband and I three years to conceive. There were so many times that I worried that I would never be able to have children, it upset me so much it was all I could think about.
I didn't go to the doctor for any test because in the back of my mind I had hope even though at that point it wasn't much. I finally gave up and came to the conclusion that I must be infertile and had accepted that and gave up on trying. I literally got pregnant the same month that I accepted that I would never conceive. We weren't even trying anymore. I know it's hard, scary and confusing but I truly believe you need to focus on another aspect of your life for a while and make that your main focus and it will probably happen when you least expect it. Hang in there it's just around the corner.... Give it some time and little to no thought. I wish you the best.
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