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Q: I feel like a sex toy ..

asked by: barrib on June 17th, 2007

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My Gf is one of the most horniest people i have ever met she wants to do it all the time, but the only catch is i have to iniciate the first move an sumtimes wen i dont she falls out and we end up argueing really bad, she told me the only reason she gets all horny was because the first time we had sex she said my penis was gigantic and it hits her spot all the time,thats why she gets so horny thinking bout that sensation again,

But....... i feel like a sex toy thats feeling dont count,im scared she mite be a carrier of an sti aswell im such a mess.

please help

Replies(3)

Tylanas

replied on June 17th, 2007

Especially eHealthy

It does sound like your girl is only using you for sex, and so I'd tell that to her face. She's not respecting your feelings or your needs. She doesn't sound like a good person to be dating, to be honest. Especially if you think she has an std she hasn't told you about!

If you're in a situation you don't like, just leave. Leave her, leave the relationship. Break up. Don't force yourself to do what you don't want to do. She will find another boy to use as a sex toy, I assure you. And you will find a real girl who does care about you and your feelings.

Shady41

replied on June 18th, 2007

New User

So. . . what's the problem? All males wish they had it so lucky. lol. Seriously, maybe I'm not right, but the times I feel best are times I have felt like a woman's sex toy/sex slave.

Llewellyn

replied on June 18th, 2007

Extremely eHealthy

Shady41 wrote:

So. . . what's the problem? All males wish they had it so lucky. lol. Seriously, maybe I'm not right, but the times I feel best are times I have felt like a woman's sex toy/sex slave.

Many men would agree with you, but not all. Men people have the impression that men are unemotional and only care about sex, but that just isn't the case. Some men are emotional and do want something more than sex.

I suggest talking to her about it, barrib. If things continue this way, it does not sound like it would be a healthy relationship for you. No one should ever get angry at you for not having the same sex drive that they do. People are different and have different sex drives. Nothing wrong with that. Like eiri said, there are girls out there who would want a real relationship with you just like there are guys out there who would want just a sexual relationship with her.

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