Yes, you can get HIV and other STDs even if the man does not ejaculate.

Ok. I have a sore throat. I've been getting a couple headaches every now and then. About 2 days ago I got light headed all of a sudden. I feel a little nausea right now but that might be from crying. Also I haven't been eating much because my family is struggling financially. I'm wondering if maybe this could be because of me not eating much. Please someone help me, I'm stressing myself out and I am making an appointment tomorrow for an HIV test plus a pregnancy test. I just want to know what you guys think my chances are of having it. As Llewellyn said I can contract HIV without the man ejaculating but are my chances very high? Please someone. I just want to calm down.

We cannot tell you what your chances are exactly since it depends on a lot of things. If depends on whether these guys even had HIV and what your immune system is like for example. There are other factors involved too. So it's too difficult to give exact percentages with stuff like this. All we can tell you is that it is possible that you have HIV or something else.

Your symptoms could be anything, so it is not safe to assume you have HIV based on those symptoms. You'll have to wait for the test results. That's good that you have already scheduled an appointment.