Hi. I'm john and experiencing a great
problem.
My wife and I were married for 10 years
now and many times I've surprised her
looking at porn.
Don't laugh please.
She had all sorts of pictures, movies, and
even watching the Playboy channel.
I haven't said anything to her yet,
because i don't know how to.
I know she knows I saw her pictures
because every time many pictures
disappeared...Suddenly...From the
computer...If you know what I mean..
Please give me an advice. I don't want to
ruin my marriage because of that, and
it’s getting rather weird continuing
like that.
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Tylanas
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Re: Need a Woman's Opinion! Posted: 06-17-07 12:17pm
John35235
wrote:
Hi. I'm john and
experiencing a great problem.
My wife and I were married for 10 years
now and many times I've surprised her
looking at porn.
Don't laugh please.
She had all sorts of pictures, movies, and
even watching the Playboy channel.
I haven't said anything to her yet,
because i don't know how to.
I know she knows I saw her pictures
because every time many pictures
disappeared...Suddenly...From the
computer...If you know what I mean..
Please give me an advice. I don't want to
ruin my marriage because of that, and
it’s getting rather weird continuing
like that.
Well first of all, it's very normal for
her to be looking at porn. What? So it's
porn. Big whoopte doo.
Why don't you talk to her? Say "Hey, I
know you like to look at porn... maybe we
could watch a movie together?" and then
have it dissolve into you and her making
love in front of the TV. Sounds pretty
enjoyable to me.
They key here is that you need to talk to
her. If this is something that bothers you
(though I can't imagine why) then you have
got to express your concerns to her!
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emilyyy
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Joined: 24 Jun 2007 Posts: 3
Re: Need a Woman's Opinion! Posted: 06-24-07 23:53pm
John35235
wrote:
Hi. I'm john and
experiencing a great problem.
My wife and I were married for 10 years
now and many times I've surprised her
looking at porn.
Don't laugh please.
She had all sorts of pictures, movies, and
even watching the Playboy channel.
I haven't said anything to her yet,
because i don't know how to.
I know she knows I saw her pictures
because every time many pictures
disappeared...Suddenly...From the
computer...If you know what I mean..
Please give me an advice. I don't want to
ruin my marriage because of that, and
it’s getting rather weird continuing
like that.
you need to remind her that her man is you
not a magazine! she must be feeling bored
with her sex life so you need to do
something nice and out of your usual
character and surprise her and keep doing
things like that. then she won't have time
to think about porn because she'll be
thinking about you !
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Hollyberries
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Posted: 06-25-07 00:06am
I love my sex life with my husband, and i
look at porn, and watch many movies.
Doesn't always mean she's not digging the
guy. She might just really enjoy porn, and
maybe she's a bit worried that he might
like it, or want her looking. It's normal
for this to happen. My guess is she
doesn't even know she's doing it "behind
your back" Maybe i'm wrong. Just a guess
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vanessalouanne
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Posted: 06-25-07 00:11am
why not tell her that youd like to join
in?
i know i found my husbands porn from
before we were married and he was super
embarrassed about it until i told him i
didnt mind..
maybe shes just embarrassed?
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Llewellyn
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Posted: 06-25-07 00:46am
She sounds normal to me.
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MissesH25
Supporter
Joined: 10 Jul 2007 Posts: 11 Location: New Hampshire,
Posted: 07-10-07 04:27am
Maybe she was curious? If it is upsetting
you or makes you feel uncomfortable I
would suggest talking to her about it.
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lyon2007
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Joined: 26 Jul 2007 Posts: 9 Location: ,
Posted: 07-26-07 04:01am
Its Perfectly Normal. There's nothing to
worry about.
