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Q: Need a Woman's Opinion!
asked by: John35235 on June 17th, 2007
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Hi. I'm john and experiencing a great problem.
My wife and I were married for 10 years now and many times I've surprised her looking at porn.
Don't laugh please.
She had all sorts of pictures, movies, and even watching the Playboy channel.
I haven't said anything to her yet, because i don't know how to.
I know she knows I saw her pictures because every time many pictures disappeared...Suddenly...From the computer...If you know what I mean.. Wink
Please give me an advice. I don't want to ruin my marriage because of that, and it’s getting rather weird continuing like that.
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Tylanas
replied on June 17th, 2007
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Re: Need a Woman's Opinion!
John35235 wrote:
Hi. I'm john and experiencing a great problem.
My wife and I were married for 10 years now and many times I've surprised her looking at porn.
Don't laugh please.
She had all sorts of pictures, movies, and even watching the Playboy channel.
I haven't said anything to her yet, because i don't know how to.
I know she knows I saw her pictures because every time many pictures disappeared...Suddenly...From the computer...If you know what I mean.. Wink
Please give me an advice. I don't want to ruin my marriage because of that, and it’s getting rather weird continuing like that.


Well first of all, it's very normal for her to be looking at porn. What? So it's porn. Big whoopte doo.

Why don't you talk to her? Say "Hey, I know you like to look at porn... maybe we could watch a movie together?" and then have it dissolve into you and her making love in front of the TV. Sounds pretty enjoyable to me.

They key here is that you need to talk to her. If this is something that bothers you (though I can't imagine why) then you have got to express your concerns to her!
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emilyyy
replied on June 24th, 2007
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Re: Need a Woman's Opinion!
John35235 wrote:
Hi. I'm john and experiencing a great problem.
My wife and I were married for 10 years now and many times I've surprised her looking at porn.
Don't laugh please.
She had all sorts of pictures, movies, and even watching the Playboy channel.
I haven't said anything to her yet, because i don't know how to.
I know she knows I saw her pictures because every time many pictures disappeared...Suddenly...From the computer...If you know what I mean.. Wink
Please give me an advice. I don't want to ruin my marriage because of that, and it’s getting rather weird continuing like that.


you need to remind her that her man is you not a magazine! she must be feeling bored with her sex life so you need to do something nice and out of your usual character and surprise her and keep doing things like that. then she won't have time to think about porn because she'll be thinking about you !
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Hollyberries
replied on June 25th, 2007
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I love my sex life with my husband, and i look at porn, and watch many movies. Doesn't always mean she's not digging the guy. She might just really enjoy porn, and maybe she's a bit worried that he might like it, or want her looking. It's normal for this to happen. My guess is she doesn't even know she's doing it "behind your back" Maybe i'm wrong. Just a guess
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vanessalouanne
replied on June 25th, 2007
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why not tell her that youd like to join in?
i know i found my husbands porn from before we were married and he was super embarrassed about it until i told him i didnt mind..
maybe shes just embarrassed?
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Llewellyn
replied on June 25th, 2007
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She sounds normal to me.
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MissesH25
replied on July 10th, 2007
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Maybe she was curious? If it is upsetting you or makes you feel uncomfortable I would suggest talking to her about it.
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lyon2007
replied on July 26th, 2007
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Its Perfectly Normal. There's nothing to worry about.
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