Everyone listen up, most of you are either mothers or soon to be, talking about how those of us who don’t have kids should listen to you because you’ve been there, or will be in a few..Blah blah. Like because we don’t have our own we don’t understand, I feel like it’s a huge battle between those who have kids and those who don’t aside from stacie. And you know something its not cool at all. A lot of the things said really offended chanda, and to be honest she never asked for any one person’s advice or approval did she? Now a lot of you are jumping on her case about waiting. Yes she knows josh isn’t best for her at the moment, but she loves him. If it came to the wire, and she hypothetically did end up pregnant, which she is not, and josh, hypothetically did leave her, she would be mature enough to do the parenting thing alone. Now I think this is a dead issue, chanda has decided to leave the boards for a while. So let it die ok? You all said what you wanted now leave it be.

Megan