my question to you if you
are both or were virgins then how would he
know what loose is if he has never been
with anyone else. Sounds to me like he may
have some explaining to do. I know he
said you were loose but did he say he did
not like it? I think turning around and
trying to hurt his feelings about the size
of his penis is just asking for trouble.
If you love eachother and you admire him
for his honesty then tell him that the
comment hurt you. I am sure he most
likely did not mean it the way it came
out. I have had 1 child naturally and the
size of vigina has not change at all. But
for some women it will change it. I have
pain with sex and my doc told me that the
vigin opens to accomidate the size of said
mans penis but it will not shrink of the
mans penis is smaller you are one size and
thats it.
good point Karebare.
And some men say things and they even
realize how they sound..
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nickynickynicky
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Jul 2007 Posts: 11
Posted: 07-11-07 23:11pm
He might be trying to wait too long after
your orgasm before ejaculating. He should
try to let himself climax when your vagina
clenches down during your orgasm. This is
his signal and he will have to resist the
sensation to climax then in order to keep
going. It's natural for the vagina to
loosen up and relax if he keeps going for
a significant amount of time after you
have your orgasm. Also, the vagina is
less likely to do it's muscular clenching
when you have sex early in your monthly
cycle or late in your monthly cycle. As
you are aware, you don't have a problem
and he may not know that variations in
vaginal tightness are normal.
I almost forgot to tell you. You can make
your muscles in your vigina stronger so
you can clench his penis at any time. 2
exercises are 1 while you are in bed not
having sex off course lie on your back
with your knees bent like you are going to
do sit ups then you tilt you pelvice up
slightly. Like you are trying to touch you
chin with your belly botton. To know if
you are doing this right put 2 fingers
right on your pelvice and it should feel
like your trying not to pee. if you can
not feel the muscle it should be very
close to the bone very small muscle #2 try
clenching your vigina your self for 30
seconds then release repeat often and you
can do this any where. I have very strong
pelvic and vigina muscles, I know that my
husband enjoys it was I can clench him I
can almost always get him to the point of
climax when I am playing and tease him and
other times when I just want it to be
over. The first time I ever did this to
him he was like wow that feels great where
did you learn to do that. I must tell you
it was an oops. I do pelvic tilts for my
lower back as well and was told by my
first gynie to strengthan that muscle for
child birth. But it takes a fair amount of
practise to be able to clench for awhile.
I can hold my vigina in that clench
position for about 1/2 hour with out
leting go and it is very little effort for
me.
