touched but didnt penetrate a girl when I
was 14, I tryed to have sex with my male
freind when we were 15 but he was drunk
and I finaly had lots of lovley sex with
my b/f at 16
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Tylanas
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Posted: 06-17-07 12:11pm
I will now blow you all away...
20. I was 20 when I first had sex
Then again boys thought I was "too weird"
when I was in highschool, and I honestly
had no desire to have sex with any of
them. Heck, I didn't even want to date
most of them, because they were stupid.
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jaime_elms
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Mar 2006 Posts: 498 Location: newcastle
Posted: 06-17-07 12:26pm
i was 16 - it was with my long term bf!
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jenni56
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Jun 2007 Posts: 7 Location: TN
Posted: 06-17-07 13:45pm
I was 15
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Tylanas
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Posted: 06-17-07 13:56pm
Okay, my turn for a question:
Were all of you kids ready for sex when
you had it? This includes:
1. Did you know about birth control, how
to use it, and how effective it is?
2. Did you know how you could become
pregnant/impregnate someone?
3. Did you have a plan in case this
happened?
4. Did you know about std protection?
5. Did you know girls should start getting
pap smears once they are sexually active?
They often can't get birth control without
a pap once they are sexually active, or
over the age of 18. I couldn't because I
was over 18.
I don't want to sound preachy; I'm
actually interested to know how well sex
education is working these days.
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Dannzibelle
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Joined: 23 Oct 2006 Posts: 3775 Location: South East, England
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Posted: 06-17-07 14:45pm
Eiri
wrote:
Okay, my turn for a
question:
Were all of you kids ready for sex when
you had it? This includes:
1. Did you know about birth control, how
to use it, and how effective it is?
2. Did you know how you could become
pregnant/impregnate someone?
3. Did you have a plan in case this
happened?
4. Did you know about std protection?
5. Did you know girls should start getting
pap smears once they are sexually active?
They often can't get birth control without
a pap once they are sexually active, or
over the age of 18. I couldn't because I
was over 18.
I don't want to sound preachy; I'm
actually interested to know how well sex
education is working these
days.
1. Yes i went onto the pill as soon as me
and my boyfriend decided to have sex and
then waited untill i'd finished the first
month of it before having sex,
unfortunatly i had very bad reactions to
the pill so after a few months we started
to use condoms instead.
2. Yes.
3. Because neither of us would want to
have an abortion or give the child up for
adoption we always said that if it was to
happen (which it has) that we would keep
the child.
4. Yes, there is a great school nurse at
my school who used to be a midwife so is
obviously well educated in that field. i'd
also had conversations with my mum about
safe sex.
5. yes i knew that you should go for these
when you're sexually active, although in
the uk you don't need to get one in order
to get birth control.
And to some it up i was just coming up to
my 15th birthday when i had sex for the
first time
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Llewellyn
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jan 2007 Posts: 1743 Location: NY
Posted: 06-17-07 15:30pm
Eiri
wrote:
Were all of you kids ready for sex when
you had it? This includes:
1. Did you know about birth control, how
to use it, and how effective it is?
2. Did you know how you could become
pregnant/impregnate someone?
3. Did you have a plan in case this
happened?
4. Did you know about std protection?
5. Did you know girls should start getting
pap smears once they are sexually active?
They often can't get birth control without
a pap once they are sexually active, or
over the age of 18. I couldn't because I
was over 18.
I was 16. Yes, I believe I was ready. My
school had a wonderful sex ed program.
1. Yes. We had speakers come in from
Planned Parenthood when I was in high
school. I started getting my paps and was
on Depo when I was 16.
2. Yes.
3. Nothing concrete. We certainly would
have talked about it if I did get pregnant
though. My mother is open and
supportive.
4. Yes
5. Yes.
Honestly, I think all kids should know all
that stuff long before they have sex.
Sadly, some schools seem to have really
awful sex ed programs.
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Birch
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Joined: 07 Nov 2005 Posts: 3966 Location: Bliss,
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Posted: 06-17-07 15:36pm
Eiri
wrote:
Okay, my turn for a
question:
Were all of you kids ready for sex when
you had it? This includes:
1. Did you know about birth control, how
to use it, and how effective it is?
2. Did you know how you could become
pregnant/impregnate someone?
3. Did you have a plan in case this
happened?
4. Did you know about std protection?
5. Did you know girls should start getting
pap smears once they are sexually active?
They often can't get birth control without
a pap once they are sexually active, or
over the age of 18. I couldn't because I
was over 18.
I don't want to sound preachy; I'm
actually interested to know how well sex
education is working these
days.
I was nineteen.
Yes to the above. Used depo provera and
condoms, my plan was abortion, and I had
paps. My knowledge had nothing to do with
my small, midwestern town upraising-it had
to do with the advent of the internet and
my parents' utter incompetence with using
it. heh
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jenni56
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Jun 2007 Posts: 7 Location: TN
Posted: 06-17-07 17:28pm
Eiri
wrote:
Okay, my turn for a
question:
Were all of you kids ready for sex when
you had it? This includes:
1. Did you know about birth control, how
to use it, and how effective it is?
2. Did you know how you could become
pregnant/impregnate someone?
3. Did you have a plan in case this
happened?
4. Did you know about std protection?
5. Did you know girls should start getting
pap smears once they are sexually active?
They often can't get birth control without
a pap once they are sexually active, or
over the age of 18. I couldn't because I
was over 18.
I don't want to sound preachy; I'm
actually interested to know how well sex
education is working these
days.
1. I did know about birth control but did
not use it with my him. I didn't get on
the pill till I started to see my current
boyfriend. I have been with him for 2
years so when we decided to go all the way
we talked about the birth control and
thought it was the best option.
2. Yes I did know how I could become
pregnant and I was constantly worried
about it.
3. A plan... not really, I was young. I
was worried about it but didn't think that
it would happen to me.
4. I did know about STD's but didn't
really think it was that big a deal b/c it
was both of oues first time. But then I
worried about it after I found out he
cheat on me with a skanky ho. lol
5.I had a pap, and thanks to the college
that I go to they offer free birth
control. They give you 14 packs when you
go in.
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Lion79
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Joined: 29 Mar 2007 Posts: 307 Location: Sunderland, UK
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Posted: 06-17-07 17:54pm
Eiri
wrote:
Okay, my turn for a
question:
Were all of you kids ready for sex when
you had it? This includes:
1. Did you know about birth control, how
to use it, and how effective it is?
2. Did you know how you could become
pregnant/impregnate someone?
3. Did you have a plan in case this
happened?
4. Did you know about std protection?
5. Did you know girls should start getting
pap smears once they are sexually active?
They often can't get birth control without
a pap once they are sexually active, or
over the age of 18. I couldn't because I
was over 18.
I don't want to sound preachy; I'm
actually interested to know how well sex
education is working these
days.
I was 15, nearly 16. I was ready for it,
we'd been together about 5 months so I
don't think we rushed, experimented a bit
beforehand but maybe some of the reasons I
used to justify it could have been a bit
wrong, i.e. I wanted to shut my friend up
cuz she was the only one that had done it
and kept bragging.
1. I was on the pill and had been for a
couple months, I actually asked my mam if
I could go on it just in case. I only got
to know more about actual bc when visiting
the docs, so it kind of educated me about
everything else as well.
2. yeh i did know it, but also knew how
effective the pill was and I took it when
i woke up every morning so it was arund
about the same time. I know there's still
a possibility but it's so small.
3. well no, because I would never expect
it and we used condoms as well as the
pill
4. we used condoms but no chance of stds
really cuz we had never slept with anyone
else
5. I was told that I needed smear tests
every 2 years and the hospital just sort
of makes the appointments for you, so I
vaguely knew it lol.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 06-17-07 19:01pm
Thanks to everyone who answered ^^ Suppose
I should too.
Yes, I knew about birth control and used
condoms from day one and then went onto
pills
I knew about my body, etc.
I had a plan of "abort no matter what!"
but that's changed now to adoption out to
a gay couple
I knew about std's, thus the condom.
And I actually had to get a pap smear
before I even got onto pills the first
time.
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*Vanessa*
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Apr 2007 Posts: 111 Location: Australia
Posted: 06-18-07 00:00am
poppypot
wrote:
touched but didnt penetrate
a girl when I was 14, I tryed to have sex
with my male freind when we were 15 but he
was drunk and I finaly had lots of lovley
sex with my b/f at 16
thats exactly like me sorta. tryed when i
was 16 but he was to drunk and on the
flop, i didnt do anythink with a girl, and
then at 16 i als have loevly sex with my
bf. but im 18 now, and still going
