I know its hard, when you try and try and get no results. We are all in the same boat as you.

When you say you are trying, what have you been doing? Temping? Charting? Ovulation Predictors? Those are good things to start doing if you're not already. It gives you a good idea of when and if you are ovulating and if your bding on the right days.

I know 4 months seems like forever, but it isnt long enough to get worried.

Good luck! Have fun with it.

IT TAKES A HEALTHY COUPLE TO GET PREGGO AT LEAST A YEAR. I WAS TOLD THAT BY MY DR. RECENTLY AND SOME LADIES HERE IN THE FORUM. I HAVE A YEAR TRYING ALSO AND JUST THIS MONTH I AM GOING TO GET ON A TREATMENT. JUST BE PATIENT IT WILL HAPPEN TO YOU WHEN U LEAST EXPECTED.

**LOTS OF BABY DUST TO YA**

Hi! My husband and I have been trying for a year too! It definitely ***! We just had an appt yesterday with my gyno abotu it and she said that we should be "doing it" every other day between days 9 and 18 if you have a regular cycle. Even if you are using a fertility monitor it will only tell you when you get the LH surge...not actually when the egg is released. My doctor said that the egg could come out early or late? Anyway...she is having my husband get "tested" and I have to have a hystersalpingogram to make sure I dont' have blocked fallopian tubes...if everything looks ok, I will begin a low dose of clomid on teh next cycle to see if that helps. Many people say it takes a year for 80% of couples to get pregnant and 90% can in 2 years...but they do say that after a year you should see a doctor to get things checked out...good luck!