So.. i have recently started dating again,
after a 5 years relationship and a break
up.
My new guy, has been with one other
person(just once), besides myself, and is
uncircumsized.
I cannot stand being near his penis. !!!
It smells so bad! ...What is it.... I
mean, is it normal for penis' to smell so
rancid!? and i just got lucky with my old
guy?
I feel bad asking him about it.. or
bringing it up.. but i dunno what to do.
I talked to him about getting std
checked.. because we are sleeping
together, and what not.. hes agreed, but
what if its not an std. what could it be..
Any suggestions would be appreciated!
Thanks a bunch!
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Llewellyn
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jan 2007 Posts: 1743 Location: NY
Posted: 06-14-07 19:14pm
I hate the smell of a man's penis and
testicles. I don't know if it is the
testicle sweat I am smelling or what.
Every man I have ever been with had a
smell, although it is tough to know just
how stinky your man is exactly.
Uncircumcised penises can get particularly
sweaty and stinky. I would suggest
talking to him about it. Be open about
it. He could go to a doctor just to make
sure nothing is wrong. If the doctor says
it's normal, you can just tell him you
don't like the smell. I don't hide that
fact from my partner. You can make him
shower right before you go near his penis.
I have gone so far as to spray body spray
on my partner's thighs to cover up some of
his smell.
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shgrdii
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Mar 2005 Posts: 14
Posted: 06-15-07 08:31am
Talk to him about it. He will most likely
not be offended. My girlfriend once told
me that she couldn't give me oral sex
because of the smell of my penis. I guess
I hadn't showered for over a day when this
happened. I'm sure its nothing a good
shower won't take away. Tell him to make
sure he does a good job cleaning down
there when he showers. I know you said he
is a new guy, so I'm guessing you probably
don't feel comfortable enough to tell him,
but I would consider it.
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Hell Fire
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 May 2007 Posts: 74 Location: Plymouth UK, UK
Posted: 06-15-07 13:59pm
Every man and woman smell dif. If its a
bad smell and theres also thick or thin
stuff like a crust i think its lack of
hygine to be honest. My X was always ok
but when we were camping or walking and
was being spontaniouse etc sometimes he
used to smell real bad!!! My new man has
very good hygine and smells and tastes
nice i must say. As said every man does
smell but if its bad just try to talk to
him openly. Or try having a shower or bath
togeather and see if it still smells after
a good scrub. If it does then it could be
something more detramental.
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dondeluis
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Nov 2007 Posts: 14
Posted: 11-29-07 21:35pm
Do they ever smell good?
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marvel
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Posted: 11-30-07 02:00am
It's normal to have an odour down there.
Both men and women, given the functions
and position of their genitals, have
odours.
Try having a shower before you fool
around. It might make a difference.
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pebbles07
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Nov 2007 Posts: 37 Location: ,
Posted: 11-30-07 02:14am
I don't know about everyone but I have
come across a smelly one! I just would ask
my ex to take a shower. after we had sex
I would also make him take a shower
because if u don't and do it again ladies
can get infections. I don't know about
guys. if u (girls) have a smell even after
u shower it may be some type of infection.
If i feel sweaty or haven't took a shower
since the morning i will shower before i
have sex and then again after. It makes me
feel better. With guys though I noticed
that too some smell and some don't. It may
be if they sweat easy or haven't showered
i think. With uncircumsized i think they
have to clean like the tip or something or
else they get infected so that's what it
may be.
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The Mrs
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Joined: 25 Oct 2007 Posts: 451 Location: , Texas
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Posted: 11-30-07 02:46am
I think he either has poor hygiene habits
(since uncircumcised penises do require
more care when bathing) or else has some
sort of infection. My husband's penis
never smells bad at all, and he's not like
some super freaky clean person or anything
I, however, have
noticed a sort of "musty hair" smell
around his pubic hair on his testicles if
it has been more than 12 or so hours since
a shower, but it is not unbearable. The
only way I can describe it is sort of a
manly, un-deodorized armpit smell But
it is not nearly as hard to bare. It's
just not something I'd choose to smell.
Anyhow, I'm sorry you have to deal with
this. I'm sure mentioning it to him would
be the best thing to do in your case.
Have him try taking extra care in cleaning
it before coming in contact with it, and
if that doesn't dramatically improve the
situation, I'd try to talk him into seeing
a doctor. Good luck!
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tiddlywinks
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Sep 2008 Posts: 3
Posted: 09-26-08 04:38am
Hey everyone I am a little new to the
board but this is definitely something I
can relate too.
You guys there is a pretty simple solution
to all of this, it's called use a cleanser
that has a long lasting effect on
cleanliness and odor. Most of us take
showers at least once in the morning or
night. There are a few products out there
and I have tried them, the most effective
one would be mj i heard it on the radio.
if you search for man junk on Google you
will find it because we can't put links on
here another thing i know I was worried
about was a random chemical on my private
area you can plus their wash is natural
and organic so you can feel comfortable
putting it on this area. i know this was a
big deal to me.
I hope this helps all the guys and girls
with guys out there, i know it helped me.
PM me if you have any other questions.
I made it run together to make it sound
unprofessional
Uncircumcised penises can get particularly
sweaty and stinky. I would suggest
talking to him about it. Be open about
it. He could go to a doctor just to make
sure nothing is wrong. If the doctor says
it's normal, you can just tell him you
don't like the smell. I don't hide that
fact from my partner. You can make him
shower right before you go near his penis.
I have gone so far as to spray body spray
on my partner's thighs to cover up some of
his smell. 
I, however, have
noticed a sort of "musty hair" smell
around his pubic hair on his testicles if
it has been more than 12 or so hours since
a shower, but it is not unbearable. The
only way I can describe it is sort of a
manly, un-deodorized armpit smell 