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Q: Problem With My Best Friend
asked by: piko23 on June 14th, 2007
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Hi
i am 22 yrs old girl ,and lately i had a problem with my best friend , and i asked her not to talk with me forever , she started saying no dont go to extrem with it , we can not stop talking and ....... but i insisted to stop talking with her
the next day i went to talk with her, i told her i am sorry for what i said i wanna talk with you , she said okay but i am not a game and it is not up to u , i wont talk with u , and yea she means it , it is now 3 days we didnt talk , yesterday she told me that we can talk but it can never be like before , so i said okay , i tried talking with her she was sooooo weird , for example : i told her how was ur day , she said good i told her what did u do? she said stop asking questions , again i asked her a question about an actor and she was like : I SAID STOP ASKING ME QUESTIONS , I HATE QUESTIONS
she doesnt answer her fone , she doesnt reply to msgs ,only when i see her she talks and that's how she talks now , i really dont like the way she is talking with me now , i dont know what to do , i dont wanna loose her
Sad i hope i can find help in here
thanx
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lil_blaze2004
replied on June 14th, 2007
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what happened in the first place that you did not want to talk to her? There has to be more to this.
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John35235
replied on June 17th, 2007
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Your friend felt betrayed by you.
I've got the same problem with my best friend.
I was writing a paper for one of her colleagues. When finished, that person wasn't satisfied with the work, although I've spent many nights and almost had no sleep, for him to be satisfied.
He told my friend that it was only her fault that I’m not a serious person and stuff like that.
My best friend was very upset and stops talking to me.
Later on, she realized that she was wrong, and tried to talk to me.
But it wasn't the same.
Now we are like strangers because I know that our friendship doesn't mean a great deal to her.
So , to be more precise, I'm ignoring her, and our friendship has ended.
Why? Because we were best friends and she trough that away in one minute.
Please review your attitude...If you want to save what's left of your friendship.
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Spirit
replied on June 20th, 2007
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The friend did not "betray" her..................didn't she first say don't talk to me forever?................Strong words...............and strong words have consequences.....................probably why we should Think before we Speak, especially when we are very angry....................when peeved..........walk away..........give some thought to it.....

..........if someone said that to me.................they'd get dead silence in return......................not an unforgiveable sin.................but they Would have to make the first move...........................and it'd had better be good Smile
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