Q: Help! Inlaws Giving Stress Or Am I Taking It Too Seriously??
asked by:
enoman1
on June 13th, 2007
New User
hi!
my situation is a bit complex and might seem hard to understand but the thing is that i had an arranged marriage and currently we are living in a combined family system (with inlaws). i love my husband and vice versa, but lately i have been completely stressed out since i got a yeast infection. i am susceptible to them and spent a year and a half with it, so the thought of the whole cycle starting all over again is depressing me. on top of that, my mother and father in law are giving me a hard time over the supervision of our servant. u see, if even the smallest task is left undone or the tiniest detail overlooked by him, they point it out to me and berate me in a critical manner. i have a very short temper and especially nowadays my fuse is really short. it is hard for me to keep from giving them a piece of my mind but i manage it somehow for my husband's sake.i dont want to confront them over this as they tend to take offense quite easily but i dont want this sort of behaviour to continue either. my elf confidence in my housekeeping is nil now because of this. my husband understands but implores me to bear this a little while longer saying we will get posted out of here soon. but i feel that running away from confrontation is not the solution and they need to stop this behaviour. what should i do?
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