Having sex when taking birth control is not unprotected sex, unless you are talking about sti's. Since we are not discussing sti's and we are discussing preventing pregnancy, having sex on the pill with nothing else is protected!
The pill alone is 99% effective in preventing pregnancy. That means the pill, alone, with the man ejaculating inside the woman's vagina. The pill .I.S protection enough for preventing pregnancy! Relax! That's why you're on it!
If you still want to use condoms to prevent the spread of sti's - great, you should, but you can both relax and don't need to have him pull out in addition to the double protection you already have!
I'm verging on ranting now, so I'll stop. It just really irks me when people referring to preventing pregnancy call it "unprotected sex" when a person is on the pill! Argh!