|Well me and my boyfriend are doing great lol few bumps here and there rite. But we.ve been thinking of moving in together maybe after a year. He lives with his parents after coming back from irag. The mom doesn't work cause her husband tells her not to. His father works in construction but doesn't have a steady job(he only does little projects) paradise have work maybe 8 months outta the year!
He has a little brother 14
and 2 lil sisters ones 6 and ones 8. The mom doesn't work cause she doesn't want to put them in day care. So the thing is when he told them he would move in wit me in the future they said no. Oh yea thÃ©y ask him for his paychek every 2weeks.
He tells me all the financial problems he's having because his family hits him up for money all the time. He's asked his dad to get a better job and the father says no that he's fine were he is. His mother says she won't cause she doesn't want to work. I feel stuck because when. The day does come that we want to move he won't because he feels soo obligated to provide for his family even if it means not moving out with me.
Both my folks work even my mother who is disabled! So why are his parents acting like this? So selfishly? They want to buy a house and even had the nerve to stuff we move in with them so we can help pay bills and rent. I said no I wasn't going to because its something that wasn't going to be mines anytime soon lol
|sorry but i dont think your b/f is going to put his foot down anytime soon so i would not count on him moving in with you. pretty bad his parents would make him feel guilty|