ok so, i had sex with this guy i dated on
a friday night, and it was my first time,
and he obviously popped my cherry, so i
bled a little bit after like a tiny bit ,
then the next day i didnt, but the day
after which was the sunday i did in the
morning when i went pee and that was it,
then the next morning after that which was
the monday i beld again, this time a tiny
bit more... so it really worrys me.
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Llewellyn
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jan 2007 Posts: 1743 Location: NY
Posted: 06-11-07 14:32pm
I think you are a little confused on what
it means to "pop someone's cherry."
"Popping your cherry" means doing
something for the first time.
People often refer to the hymen as the
cherry, but I think that started out of
the misconception that girls break their
hymen the first time they have sex. The
truth is, most girls tear their hymen long
before they ever have sex. Hymens are
delicate and usually break from tampons,
fingers, or even just running and jumping
in childhood or around puberty. There is
usually little or no pain or blood when it
breaks.
Most girls do not bleed their first time
having sex. However, if you did, it does
not necessarily mean anything serious is
going on. The most likely cause is that
you weren't lubricated enough. When you
try to shove things into a vagina that is
not lubricated enough, you can get a lot
of tearing, pain, blood, or a combination
of all three. You'll probably heal just
fine on your own, but you can go to the
ob-gyn just to make sure it is nothing
more serious.
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hollister
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Jun 2007 Posts: 11 Location: london
Posted: 06-11-07 14:37pm
well its not actually like blood, like it
is but it's pinkish and its not throughout
the day, only in the morning which is
wierdd, but after i did have sex i did
bleed a little, i dont know, it worries me
like im scared
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Llewellyn
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jan 2007 Posts: 1743 Location: NY
Posted: 06-11-07 14:44pm
hollister
wrote:
well its not actually like
blood, like it is but it's pinkish and its
not throughout the day, only in the
morning which is wierdd, but after i did
have sex i did bleed a little, i dont
know, it worries me like im
scared
It's very common and usually just a result
of tearing. However, if you're scared you
can have an ob-gyn take a look. Now that
you're sexually active, you're supposed to
see an ob-gyn anyway.
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hollister
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Jun 2007 Posts: 11 Location: london
Posted: 06-11-07 14:49pm
so this isnt a sign of pregnancy.. right?
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Llewellyn
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jan 2007 Posts: 1743 Location: NY
Posted: 06-11-07 14:55pm
hollister
wrote:
so this isnt a sign of
pregnancy..
right?
Bleeding can be a sign of pregnancy. That
is called "implantation bleeding."
However, you say this started right after
the sex. That would be much too soon to
notice implantation bleeding. Most women
do not notice implantation bleeding at
all. When it does come, it is often right
around the time a woman is expecting her
period, so it is often mistaken for a
period.
If you are afraid you might be pregnant,
the only way to know for sure is to wait
until you miss your period, then take a
test. You can't go by any other symptoms
because every early pregnancy symptom can
mean many things other that just
pregnancy.
If you do not want to get pregnant, make
sure you always use at least one method of
birth control.
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hollister
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Jun 2007 Posts: 11 Location: london
Posted: 06-11-07 15:04pm
well yea it bled a little bit after and
then it didnt bleed until not the next day
but the day after that..
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Llewellyn
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jan 2007 Posts: 1743 Location: NY
Posted: 06-11-07 15:17pm
hollister
wrote:
well yea it bled a little
bit after and then it didnt bleed until
not the next day but the day after
that..
Even that would be a bit soon for
implantation bleeding, so if you used
protection, it sounds like you do not have
to worry too much about pregnancy.
