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Q: Is This Messed Up Or What?! Please Help (legal, Std Issues?)
asked by: blissa on February 28th, 2004
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Here are my current symptoms:
open leisons that seem to respond to neosporin
small under the skin hard bumps
pain in my entire genital region- especially my rectum- all the time
general fever and chills
mucosy and small amt of blood in bowel movements which are painful
normal (but lots) of vaginal discharge
has gotten worse in the past 2 days
i have a pre existing latex allergy and sensitive skin

this is what happened preceding these symptoms (this is the messed up part):
went to memphis to see an old lover and thought we were experimenting with bondage etc so I let myself get tied up and blindfolded... The next thing-- I felt a pointy object up my ass! It was an enema!
I was pissed but it was too late.
He barged in the bathroom and tried to screw me while I was shitting
it sounds surreal- I told him to stop and he did.
I think I probably have some fecal germs in my vaginal area and that the latex on the bag could have torn me up some since id just accidentally overdosed on laxatives a few days before (took a full dose which was more than I needed) and am allergic to latex.

My second problem:
i have no health insurance and no money to pay for a doctor. I just graduated college and haven't found a "real" job yet other than my college one.

My third issue:
this guy is really rich and owns a large company. He has not returned my calls all week nor my emails. He never once even hinted to me that he was into the whole caca/enema fantasy. I understand that that "fetish" is different than regular s&m/bdsm play.
I think that he is under a moral obgligation to pay for my medical expenses (it was not as if we both agreed to do the anal to vaginal stuff).
I would like to hope that this is also a legal issue -- is it?

I am confused, hurting, humiliated, and very very angry. Not to mention extremely stressed out about this. I feel dirty and just awful in all ways right now.
Thanks
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2ferano
replied on March 10th, 2004
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It would be extremely hard and not worth it to try to take legal action. I mean you let him tie you up, so whatever he did after that you pretty much gave prior permission. Not necessarily, but that is how a court will look at it. I would just tell him that when he did that to you he caused health problems and you would like him to pay for it. He sounds like a real psycho to me, so I dunno what his answer will be, but it is worth a try I guess. I personally would never want to talk to him again or to ask him for anything, but that is just me. In the future, I would be careful who you get involved with and do not let someone tie you up unless you can trust them!
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princess529_98
replied on April 9th, 2004
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Silly Question
Hello, I was just reading this post. And I feel real stupid asking this question but.. The part that said she was in the bathroom health questionting. What the heck is that? What does all that mean? If someone knows can ya fill me in please..
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