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Tylanas

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Posted: 08-12-07 12:30pm

jakii wrote:
i probly already know... but what is spooning..?

and o yea... plz be careful


Spooning is when the man and woman lay on their sides, and the man penetrates the woman from behind. You can do this for vagina or anal sex. It is very comfortable for some women.
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jakii

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Posted: 08-12-07 14:11pm

Eiri : wow you seem to have a very ...wide ranging knowledge about everything
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Tylanas

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Posted: 08-12-07 14:28pm

jakii wrote:
Eiri : wow you seem to have a very ...wide ranging knowledge about everything

Not really XD But thank you.
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lonestarguy

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Posted: 08-12-07 14:48pm

She's right, eiri. You do have a lot of knowledge and how to get it to people in a form they can use. Don't be so modest.
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Tylanas

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Posted: 08-12-07 18:31pm

Embarassed *blush* Thanks... I just try to give people honest answers.
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Water Falling Gently

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Re: First Time Sex: Best Position?
Posted: 08-12-07 18:51pm

Missionary with your legs wide apart and knees bent back. Get some lubricant, a lot of foreplay, take it slow, and relax.

Now that said...please wait. You're very young. Your boyfriend should wait if he is worth anything. Listen, this guy is just going to be an embarassing regret in years to come. This won't last. It ups his experience, reputation, and he gets pleasure, really. Everybody thinks this is too young. Boyfriends in the future won't really like this if they're interested in a relationship, and every guy from now on will think he should have sex with you because you already did, at 15. You're setting yourself up for something that will haunt you.

Also, condoms have about a 14% failure rate. AND teenage boys are neither trustworthy enough to wear one all the time nor knowledgable enough to use them well.

You can't go back to your body just being yours and sex being sacred after this. You're giving up innocence that isn't appropriate at your age. You're also bringing things into your life like: fear of STD's and pregnancy, embarassing moments, fear of getting caught, pap smears, stirrups and exams, birth control expenses and responsibility. Put it off until you're a little older and ready to handle all this.
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Confused_Stressed

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Re: First Time Sex: Best Position?
Posted: 08-12-07 19:00pm

dancerbbex wrote:
Hi im 15 and me and my boyfriend have been talking about sex lately. We have decided we are going to do it but Im really scared as it will be mi first time! I worried that i might do something wrong or not please him. We are thinkin of doggy stlye or maybe up against a wall but what are the best positions for a first time ? Please help and give any tips or advice please xxx


Ill be honest, lost my V card when two months after my 16th bday. I think that this age is I guess more acceptable for females(dont ask me thats what I get all the time?) and my first time wasnt fireworks and passion. It was the front passanger seat of my car on a side road ME on top! I lost it to the best person ever bc we are the best of friends almost 4 years later. Just make sure if things go bad he wont be a douche and tell everyone later your a prostitute or something. My advice on position....In a bed at least lol. MOST DEF USE A CONDOM, ive been pregnant and had no support, its not fun. So yeah Happy (i would put humping but how cliche') DAYS
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marytartor

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Posted: 08-12-07 19:02pm

"condoms have about a 14% failure rate. " Um.. since when?

And another she did not ask whether or not she should have sex. Just how to make it comfortable for her. So do not lecture.
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Water Falling Gently

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Re: Marytartor
Posted: 08-12-07 19:10pm

Within one year, 12 to 14% of people get pregnant, get an STD, or have one break after using condons as an only form of birth control, or that's what msn reported yesterday as the latest statistics from the American Medical Association. Look it up, and I didn't ask for your opinion nor was I speaking to you.

Mind your own business!!!
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Confused_Stressed

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Posted: 08-12-07 19:22pm

marytartor wrote:
"condoms have about a 14% failure rate. " Um.. since when?

And another she did not ask whether or not she should have sex. Just how to make it comfortable for her. So do not lecture.


I agree...But i still say use a condom and seriously just try to be in a bed lol. I know weird suggestion but when you lose it in a car, ya kind of know what to say.
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marytartor

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Posted: 08-12-07 19:32pm

I wasn't meaning to sound rude. I just did not want to turn this into a debate.

Another thing is when condoms are used correctly they are 99.9% effective. So just make sure you practice putting it on correctly or your boyfriend does.

But you made it sound like even if you used a condom(properly) there was 12-14% that you would get pregnant. Which is not the case that is with improper use.
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