I just found out my friend Travis pasted
away. He was my first love and it hit me
hard. He was in a one-vehicle car
accident early this morning with two other
guys. He and one other died and one is in
the hospital. Not many other details have
been released yet. I haven't been
speaking to him lately and that makes it
so much worse. I've never had someone
close to me die and of all people it had
to be him, a 19 year old who had his whole
life ahead of him. Why couldn't it be a 90
year old or someone that lived their life?
I know that wouldn't be much better but it
is so unfair that someone so young had to
die. I can't stop crying, its killing me
inside. I feel bad because when I found
out Brayden was being fussy and I just got
mad at him because I couldn't handle it.
My sister knows the other boy that was
killed and he was even younger yet. It
such a horrible day.
I can't type much more right now, but
please say a prayer for the families of
these two boys.
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 06-10-07 21:53pm
oh my god i can't imagine you all are in my
thoughts!
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tigresacanela24
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Posted: 06-11-07 05:35am
I wish I had an answer for you, but I
don't have one. I wish that I could say
that it gets better, but it doesn't. It
just gets easier in a way. You and the
families of the young men are in my
prayers.
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jenniek
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Joined: 21 Sep 2005 Posts: 692 Location: Salina
Posted: 06-11-07 13:58pm
I just thought I'd share an update on
things I have found out for those who
care.
I talked to Travis's mom this morning and
she told me a few things before we both
fell into tears. Travis died instantly
from trauma to his liver and the other boy
held on for a while before dieing. The
third boy is in the hospital and will
survive however he will be paralyzed from
breaking his back in 3 places and he also
suffered a broken arm and crushed pelvis.
Two were wearing seatbelts and no one is
sure if Travis was.
Below is an article from the newspaper, as
you read notice that Travis's mom found
out about the accident on the way to
church when she saw them pulling her sons
car out of ditch. I can't even imagine
how horrible that had to have been.
Crash on Centennial kills two, one
hospitalized
By
By DAVID CLOUSTON
Salina Journal
The car that she saw authorities pulling
from Dry Creek, on the west side of
Centennial Road, caused Laurie Erlemeier's
heart to sink on her way to church Sunday
morning.
The 2000 Pontiac Firebird belonged to her
son, Travis, 19. Her son and another
passenger died in the vehicle. A third
passenger remained at Salina Regional
Health Center Sunday night.
Salina Police Sunday did not identify the
three occupants of the vehicle, pending
further investigation and notification of
family members, but relatives reached
Sunday by the Journal confirmed the
victims were Erlemeier, Barry Brittendall
and Corey Kindlesparger, all of Salina.
A notice of death from Roselawn Mortuary
said that Erlemeier had died in the crash
and that funeral arrangements would be
announced later. A hospital spokeswoman
would not release information on
Kindlesparger's condition because he is a
minor.
Deputy Police Chief Mike Marshall said
police were notified of the crash by a
passerby at 4:28 a.m., after the passerby
saw lights from the disabled car. He said
one of the occupants was partially
ejected. There was no alcohol apparent in
the vehicle, he said.
Sam Brittendall Jr., a half-brother to
Barry Brittendall, 15, said Sunday that
Barry was seated in the rear passenger's
seat, Kindlesparger was in the front
passenger's seat and Erlemeier was
driving. He said family members were told
that the car was traveling on Centennial,
just past Jumpin' Joes Family Fun Center,
2031 S. Centennial, at a high rate of
speed, lost control and crashed.
Laurie Erlemeier said Sunday that she had
left for church when authorities came to
their home to notify the family of Travis'
death. Her husband, Mark, received the
news, as she passed by the scene of the
crash and recognized her son's car.
"We do know the boy in the back seat was
wearing his seat belt. But we don't know
about the other two," she said.
Her son and the other two boys were recent
acquaintances, she said. Brittendall and
Kindlesparger were drivers at Minneapolis
Raceway and had competed in separate heats
there Saturday night.
Laurie Erlemeier said her son graduated
from Salina South High School in 2006. He
had worked for a while at Tony's Pizza
Service, and was currently working at
Burger King at 2650 S. Ninth. He was
making plans to move to Tulsa, Okla., to
study areonautical mechanics at the
Spartan College of Aeronautics and
Technology.
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mc4ever02
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Posted: 06-11-07 14:04pm
Hun, I'm so sorry for your loss. My first
love was killed just days before his 16th
birthday. It was horrible. I was in a dark
place for a very long time. I can tell you
that it does get better. I still think
about him daily, but I don't cry about him
daily. You will be able to look back
fondly at memories eventually, while right
now it is probably to painful to think
about. It takes time, lots of time, but it
gets better.
I'm here for you hun. Feel free to pm me
if you want to talk.
~big hug~
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Bridget
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Posted: 06-11-07 14:04pm
that's very sad. i can't imagine being the
mother who just happened upon the
accident.
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mamaTT
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Posted: 06-11-07 14:10pm
That would be horrible. I'm so sorry for
your loss. You and the families will be
in my prayers.
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 06-11-07 14:22pm
I'm sorry Jennie. What a horrible way for
his mom to find out too. Man, I couldn't
imagine what I would do if something ever
happens to Trey. :shudder:
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sandyallen
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Joined: 02 Feb 2004 Posts: 4580
Posted: 06-11-07 16:26pm
I am sorry to hear about your friend
passing on like this and like lil blaze
said, how awful it would have been to find
out about your sons death the way she did,
anyother way would have been bad enough!
My thoughts and prayers are with you and
with these guys families!
Hugz!