1. How old are you?
16
2. How old were you when you had your first child?
15 (got pregnant at 14)
3. During your pregnancy, did you ever consider abortion as an option? What other options were open to you and your child (ex. Adoption), and which did you choose?
Never considered abortion. I feel that if you lay down and have sex that you should be willing to take responsibility for your actions. I had many people sending me letters in the mail talking about adopting my child but I would have never done that. It could have been an open adoption as well I just was not interested. I wanted this child. I chose to keep my son!!
4. From your experience, what is the best thing a mother could do to ensure the well being of her child?
Be there for them. Dont tie them down and make them do things for you. Dont expose them to sex and then tell them they cant have it. Try to be your child's friend to an extent, but dont say things like "lets have a sleep over".. Just be there for them and dont freak out over the little things, because then they will go and do the big things and keep them from you as long as they can.
5. If given the opportunity, would you go through the same experience again? Why or why not?
Yes in a way my child was planned. But he was planned for selfish reasons. You would have to know my full story to understand. Lets just put it this way I was tired of my mom shipping me around the usa, I was tired.
6. When the words 'teen pregnancy' are mentioned, most people would think of the mother first. In your opinion, how big is the role of the father in teenage pregnancy?
A huge role for me. Without my son's father by my side. I dont know what I would do. He helps me with everything. If I didnt have him it would be soo soo soo hard. He is my main support!!
7. Do you think teen pregnancy is accepted more by society today than 25 years ago?
No, I think that it was accepted more then, than it is now.
8. Do you think abortion is accepted more by society today than 25 years ago?
Yes, I think that people were more open 25 years ago then they are now, I think that abortion is becoming a big thing. A girl in my school has had like 8 abortions, and you know the sick part, her parents dont know!
9. Do you feel society looks at you differently than they would a normal teenager? If so, how?
Yes, I think that society is to judgemental. I think that they look at my face and figure my age and dont take into consideration what I am going through and how great of a mother I am. But ya know what they will see me one day on tv for best mother award and wonder what the hell they were thinking!
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stacie!