Why Am I Depressed Only When I Am Single? Posted: 06-10-07 02:55am
this is my first post on here and i have
been reading into some of the posts i have
seen so far. i have never been diagnosed
with depression but i feel as if i have
similar feelings as some of those posting
on this site and forum. i have not gone as
far as to thinking about committing
suicide but i still do have some questions
i need answered. in the past i have gone
from relationship to relationship without
missing a wink in between. recently i just
became single. (of my own doing) i broke
up with my girlfriend of 9 months. it has
only been a couple of days but now i find
myself feeling more and more down by the
moment and as you can see by the time on
this posting i have not been able to sleep
well. i have never felt this way unless i
do not have a significant other to share
my time with. i spend time with my 2 yr
old daughter but even though i love her i
still feel empty inside. i know that my
prior relationship was not the cause of
these feelings. but i need some advice. i
live with my parents but i dont feel as if
i can discuss this with them but rather
with complete strangers. i know there has
to be more people out there that feel the
same as me but i really am just looking
for some advice.
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 06-11-07 16:18pm
sounds like you need to get out and find
things to do. Call up friends, take your
daughter out, just do stuff. If you feel
this is not helping after a few weeks, you
may want to talk to a doc.
Hi there, I just want to say, I fully
understand how it feels to be sinking and
wondering how far it's gonna go. My mom
has also gone through the same experience.
When she was single, even thow she had us,
she still felt empty on the inside. She
now takes medication for it, not to say
that yours is gonna drag on. I don't know
if you've read my topics, but I went
through a year of severe anxiety and
depression and have 100% cured. I don't
take drugs, supplements, treatments,
therapy or anything. I realized that I had
sunk into it in a very short period of
time, so I started to question and analyze
what happend in that time. What I found
was that I had been emotionally abused and
neglected. I guessed that I must of
retained those negative emotions that I
had experienced in that time, so I looked
for a treatment or technique that would
release them... It was all too surreal at
the time but now I fully understand that
it happens to almost everybody. When I
found a treament that released negative
emotoins called 'negative emotional
release treament' the doctor that
practiced it explained that the ENERGY
SYSTEM (as real as any part of the body)
gets disrupted by unhealthy
relationships.... neglect, put-downs,
let-downs, break-ups, yelling, abuse etc
.. Negative energy (emotions) actually get
stuck in the energy system and blocks
positive energy(happiness) from flowing
through. When I was releasing my negative
energy I could actually feel it leave my
body.. It was an intense tingling
sensation through every part of my
body.... my hands curled up and my face
went numb even. I had to take four
treaments to get all of the blocked energy
out of the energy system, but now I have
emotional freedom for the rest of my life
or until something like that happens
again. I am now happier that I ever have
been in my life. I have gained all of the
confidence I only dreamed of and stand up
for myself now.... Maby if you could look
back through your life and try to think of
any times where you felt negative
emotions... most people retain some when
they just get out of highschool because
they feel lonely or bored and those
emotions actually retain in them.... For
now do a google search on the energy
system and you can get an idea of how real
it really is and what effect it has on the
body and mind.. Please get back to me
soon and we can converse some more about
this.... you'll be alright... talk to ya
soon..
Warren
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Re: Why Am I Depressed Only When I Am Single? Posted: 06-13-07 03:09am
Hi, welcome to this forum. You've done in
coming here and sharing your thoughts and
feelings.
lmv7777
wrote:
in the past i have gone from
relationship to relationship without
missing a wink in between. recently i just
became single. (of my own doing) i broke
up with my girlfriend of 9 months. it has
only been a couple of days but now i find
myself feeling more and more down by the
moment and as you can see by the time on
this posting i have not been able to sleep
well. i have never felt this way unless i
do not have a significant other to share
my time with.
Hi, don't feel bad for feeling that
something is missing in your life. But
understand the reasons that made you break
up and that you can live by yourself. It's
normal to have periods of depression and
sadness, but you can make your days
brighter, by focusing in other things.
Having a partner is not always good...
*hug*
