Im a 15 year old girl with an average ok life.. But ever since I met my boyfriend of 6 months ive been going through constant worry, hate and sadness. He spoils me and treats me like a princess, but when he's feeling down or upset he lashes out at me in verbal ways. Ive found that he has very munipulative behaviour, and power over me that I just cant fight. I remember when he wanted more attention, claimed he was high maitnence and he wanted to go on a break to make me figure out what I wanted, even though the whole time I knew I wasnt going to let him go. I told him i'd pay more attention, id give him endless care and love and I did. But as I started leaving my friends behind and letting my grades slip without him knowing, he slowly became busier. Two friday's ago we went on a break, he went to parties all weekend, telling me he wouldnt do anything stupid and he didnt. But, he left me at home, alone ..My friends dont really talk to me anymore.. I didnt bring any homework home, I cleaned my room, watched movies and.. Ate. He'll ignore me when he's busy, he'll tell me to !@#^ off if he's in the middle of something, but its clearly obvious to everyone that im use to it. Should I be use to this behaviour? I love him, and everytime it gets bad, I know it'll get better because it always did. So when I sit at home, thinking about where he is, and if he's thinking about me I think it'll just get better. We'll have sex again, and he'll relize how much he misses me. What do I do? Everyone tells me I need to forget about him and leave, but I cant im hooked I love him and I cant bare to think about not being with him. Ive tried talking to him about it, but he says that if I feel that way then I cant be with him because he doesnt want to cause me pain or greif, and he wants me to be happy. What he doesnt understand is that I am happy, its just im happy when he's happy.
Please help!!!!!!