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Stinging Semen, Vaginal Pain, And Uti Posted: 06-07-07 15:54pm
Well im 20 and have been having sex for
about 4 years now, When i was younger i
was raped got checked out etc and
everything was clean. I have been with 3
different men since then in long term
realtionships, With my 1st boyfriend who i
was with for about 2 years when we had sex
and he cum inside it would really hurt and
sometimes bleed, stinging pain, the inside
would go all red etc, i went to doctors
and put it down to a UTI so went on anti
bi's for a week, then again and again.
i got a little stressed out with having to
take these tablets all the time so found
that drinking loads of water and going to
the toilet would clear it up with in a
day. Anyway i broke up with him and was
then with my 2nd boyfriend everything was
fine down there for the whole 8 months we
were together..
Sorry ill cut to the case. im with a guy
now been with him about 6 months he knows
there is something wrong and wants me to
go and see the doctor. but im just ashamed
because i know i should be using a condom
but i just dont get the same feeling with
sex as i do without.
i was wondering if anyone else has had
problems like this and if there is
anything that can help, its really
starting to become a problem.. i sometimes
wonder if it might be to do with my
partners diet or something that could be
affecting his cum. or maybe there is
something more serious wrong with me. I'd
love to hear some feed back
Many thanks
Sarah
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fiona05
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Posted: 06-07-07 17:35pm
sorry - i'm not sure i know what the
question is.
you talk about having sex without condoms.
are you on birth control? are you still
getting pain and burning after sex? are
you getting frequent urinary track
infections?
are you saying the only time you get this
problem is when he ejaculates inside you,
or do you always get it after sex? i
don't understand the question, can you
clarify it?
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Jaydensmommy
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Joined: 28 Jan 2004 Posts: 1705 Location: Wisconsin
Posted: 06-07-07 21:12pm
I think some mens ejaculate is just
stronger than others because I have had
the same thing (and im clean) and so was
my partner. And at certain times it would
sting. Not too sure what causes it but I
know in my case it wasn't due to an
infection or sti of any sort.
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Georgia59
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Posted: 06-08-07 00:07am
Sometimes if you are not well lubricated
when you have sex, you may get sore and
raw from the friction, and that would
cause what you are describing. If you are
on birth control, that may also cause lack
of lubrication. Try using lubricant and
see if it helps. It could be possible that
some boyfriends just spent more time on
foreploay or something.
If you think you are getting uti's all the
time, that would describe it too. Did you
doc ever do a urine test? Some people get
utis really often . Try peeing after you
have sex every time, that should help. And
cranberry juice should make it feel better
too.
You shouldn't feel bad about going to the
doctor. The doctors are there to help you,
and if they feel like lecturing you
(kind've like the dentist telling you
that you should be flossing more) you
don't have to listen. Are you on any type
of birth control?? Anyway, you should go
to the doc. Pain during sex can be a
symptom of many things. It could also be
one of the things listed above, which
isn't as serious.
Oh, and I've never heard of a man's diet
affecting his cum. (shrug)
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louise702
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Joined: 06 Mar 2007 Posts: 52 Location: South west England,
Posted: 06-08-07 13:06pm
Georgia59
wrote:
Sometimes if you are not
well lubricated when you have sex, you may
get sore and raw from the friction, and
that would cause what you are describing.
If you are on birth control, that may also
cause lack of lubrication. Try using
lubricant and see if it helps. It could be
possible that some boyfriends just spent
more time on foreploay or something.
If you think you are getting uti's all the
time, that would describe it too. Did you
doc ever do a urine test? Some people get
utis really often . Try peeing after you
have sex every time, that should help. And
cranberry juice should make it feel better
too.
You shouldn't feel bad about going to the
doctor. The doctors are there to help you,
and if they feel like lecturing you
(kind've like the dentist telling you
that you should be flossing more) you
don't have to listen. Are you on any type
of birth control?? Anyway, you should go
to the doc. Pain during sex can be a
symptom of many things. It could also be
one of the things listed above, which
isn't as serious.
Oh, and I've never heard of a man's diet
affecting his ejaculate.
(shrug)
hey thanks for all your info, Yes im on
birth control micro 30 have been for about
4 years now with no side effects apart
from the lose of sex drive but i sometimes
think that mught be due to things that
heppend in the past..
I know i should talk to the doctor about
this problem but do you think there is
anything i could try at home before
visiting the doc i would rather leave the
doctor to the last min if poss.. i hate it
there.
Many thanks again
Sarah
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Georgia59
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Posted: 06-08-07 13:29pm
If you are on the pill and don't have a
reason to be worried abut sti's, then
there is no reason you should feel bad for
not using condoms. but the pill can cause
loss of sex drive or loss of lubrication.
So maybe I would try using lubricant and
seeing if it helps first.
If it doesn't work, I would definitely go
to the doc. Pain during sex is a symptoms
of lots of things. You should get checked
out.
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Lion79
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Posted: 06-10-07 10:23am
Does it hurt everytime you have sex?
There are some herbal remedies out there
that claim to increase sex drive etc, but
they're usually expensive and I dunno if
they work or not. Maybe you could try if
you don't want to see a doc, and
definitely try using lubricant as Georgia
suggested and see if it helps.
If these don't work it could be
pyschological, making you feel nervous and
unconsciously tense, obviously making it
painful and could make it more likely to
tear your vagina which can be where the
blood comes from. But if it only hurts
when he ejaculates inside you then it's
really unlikely that it's psychological.
Firstly, try the lubricant and maybe
herbal remedies, if you want. If these
don't work, see your doc.
