Hello, I didn't know where exactly to place this question so I hope I get some sort of advice. I am currently 10 weeks pregnant with my 3rd child. I currently live in Louisiana and the ather lives in Michigan. We are friends and nothing more, nothing less. The thing is with the distance he thinks its better to get an abortion because he cannot be there with me for the child. I have been to the abortion clinic twice and both times I could not go through with the procedure. I do agree with the situation and why he chooses abortion though. I have considered adoption but he has recently been diagnosed with inflamed testicles(or something of that nature) and the doctor has stated that it has affected his sperm. He explained the situation to the doctor and was told that if he was to have a baby that because of this previous condition the baby in turn could be born unhealthy. Now I am stuck yet again as to what to do. I know a lot of people do not agree with abortion but given our situation I do not know what to do. After the second time at the clinic I am really contimplating on going through with this pregnancy but I would not know how to even begin tell him. All of this could have been easily prevented but whats done is done and I have all these decisions and I want to make the right one. If I do decide to go ahead with this pregnancy how would I tell him? He is so sruck on having this abortion and is in belief that I did go through with it today. I havent really spoken to him since I went to the clinic this morning because I don't know how to tell him that i did not go through with the procedure yet again. i am really stuck between a rock and a hard place. Any input or advice would be greatly appreciated. Thank You.