Iâve learned as Iâve gotten older not to dwell on things that I canât change, i.e. my mother. Now that Iâm an adult with a little life experience under my belt, children of my own, forging my own path, making my own story no longer a little girl, confused. I now see that my mother has a lot of issues, long standing issues, pre-my brother and I. But she doesnât see it the same way and tends to reflect a lot her issues onto myself and others.
Her attitude and behavior his really causing trouble in my relationship with her.
Yeah , my problem is that I still need recognization for what I do. i still regarding my mothers point of view as important but until now because I am constantly getting hurt I have very little to do with my mother and this is unnerving for me and she is always tellilng me so. I have anxiety and panic attack and suffered from depression because it was all to much.