You could try putting your own fingers their first and ask your b/f to pay some gentle attention too. I have found my anus being touched can make me want anal sex. Remind each other its your choice and then have fun being convinsed

If you find it boring because your clit isnt stimulated do it in the missonary position, you need to bend your knees up. My ex could allways tell if I dindnt like something, I think it is very important your sex partner wants you to feel comfortable (if thats what you want) and better still enjoy sex.
Also you might get to know each others insides a bit better if you explore this way, Ive had to change the sheets after anal sex before!
Does he fancy being penetrated? There is a G spot up there he might like