im wondering if other women feel the way i do. I enjoy when my bf goes down on me, but a lot of the times i stop him because im scared about after being out all day and it being 7-8 hours since i last showered my vagina not being in teh best "condition" that it could.
Is anyone else get paranoid about this?
I really haven't met a woman or man that hasn't felt that way. I will tell my partner when we start to kiss and get into it that I need to take a shower. usually I'll say something whitty like, do you wanna take one with me, so it doesn't seem to kill the mood. Now, my husband and I are on a good enough understanding that if he starts to kiss my belly and I pull his head up, it's because I'm not comfortable with him going down. Sometimes, I'm over paronoid and he'll go down anyway. Not to be so bold but as they work their way down, they know if all is a go down there. But, I know exactly what you are talking about.
I just feel weird, and basically i have done the same thing with my bf, by pulling him back up and kissing him. as for the shower thing, it kinda stinks because my bf lives with his brother and his bathroom is right by his brothers bedroom LOL. and its hard to keep tabs because its not like we have sex everyday so i guess i can be proactive and maybe just wash up a bit before hand. that should work. it just sucks because i dont want to kill the mood, i mean in all reality i guess its not a HUGE deal because i prefer sex over oral anyways. LOL
the baby wipes are a great idea. I never thought about it. I always have to hunt for a towel after sex to clean up. that sometimes is a hassel because my bf lives in the basement and the bathroom is up stairs!
I know exactly what your talking about. But to be completely honest with you most of the time it is all in your mind that your not fresh. I know i've found myself doing that but my boyfriend always tells me i worry too much.
The baby wipes are the best way to keep fresh. I know i buy the big packs and always put some in my purse before leaving. I also buy the special feminine wash to clean up my "area" real good. That way i can be extra certain that it won't be too bad by the end of the day.
i would agree with the baby wipes idea. i have found myself using them at times when it is not appropriate to have a shower and i may be receiving an oral treat they make me feel more confident. however, i would suggest that you try to keep away from the scented wipes and just use unperfumed ones. if your boyfriend likes to go down on you, then i'm sure a lot of what he likes is your natural smell and taste - dont spoil it for him! even though perfumed wipes may smell nice, i assure you they don't *taste* nice!