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Q: Ejaculation: Not Knowing?

asked by: aszalajka on June 5th, 2007

Experienced User

my bf and i started having sex, and before i went on BC sometimes we use a condom sometimes he would pull out. a few times i thought it was weird he got close to ejaculation so he would pull out to slow down. well we would cont. on he would go back inside me, but i asked him if he came, and he said he didnt know..
is this normal?? not to know sometimes if u came. I have to admit when i orgasm it get pretty wet and sometimes its hard to desifer if its me or him, but isnt there some sort of feeling of release???
if anyone could help thanks! Im just curious

Replies(8)

Georgia59

replied on June 5th, 2007

Especially eHealthy

Sorry, I can't really answer your question.... but I wanted to make sure you were aware that the pull-out method is not reliable. Sperm can be present in pre-cum and you can still get pregnant from it even if he doesn't ejaculate in you.

Obviously, you're on bc now so it's all good, but I just wanted to make sure you knew...

aszalajka

replied on June 5th, 2007

Experienced User

Yes i know its not a great method, but thank you! i appeciate you letting me know, because if i didnt know than its great to know there are people on here sharing good tips!

Jaydensmommy

replied on June 5th, 2007

Advanced Support Team

Most men know when they cum. Sounds to me like he knew he did, but didn't want to scare you or admit it to you or himself.

HealthySex

replied on June 5th, 2007

Experienced User

When a man ejaculates he usually has an orgasm and would know. If he did not orgasm, but did ejaculate he would still usually be able to feel the contractions and the emission.

Shady41

replied on June 7th, 2007

New User

I cannot imagine any way a normal, healthy male would not know if he had an orgasm or not. I agree with a previous poster that he said that in an effort to prevent you from freaking out had you known he ejaculated while inside your vagina.

fiona05

replied on June 7th, 2007

Supporter

my guy has this occasionally, if we are stopping and starting to try and delay ejaculation, sometimes he will go a bit too far and ejaculate a bit but without the sensation really... i've heard a lot of guys say about that. i think it just happens sometimes if the guy is trying really hard to hold back but just mistimes it a bit!!

ashamedman

replied on June 11th, 2007

New User

Re: Ejaculation: Not Knowing?

aszalajka wrote:

my bf and i started having sex, and before i went on BC sometimes we use a condom sometimes he would pull out. a few times i thought it was weird he got close to ejaculation so he would pull out to slow down. well we would cont. on he would go back inside me, but i asked him if he came, and he said he didnt know..
is this normal?? not to know sometimes if u came. I have to admit when i orgasm it get pretty wet and sometimes its hard to desifer if its me or him, but isnt there some stuff of feeling of release???
if anyone could help thanks! Im just curious

i would say in my past experiences, about 95% of the time i knew i masturbated. before i had PE i had control over when i went. however sometimes i would feel like i was going however nothing came out in the condom and i would stay hard. other times i could go and still stay hard. so it was hard to tell.. defiantly it can be hard to tell if you are doing the pulling out method. if he wants to make sure he pulls out in time he could pull out early and have the sensation but not cum.. but the majority of the time, us guys knows.

aszalajka

replied on June 13th, 2007

Experienced User

I know he was trying to hold back as much as possible- hes trying to improve his erection time. and i know too sometimes i get really wet to the point that sometimes i wonder if its me or him, LOL.

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