It has now been 10 weeks since my partner
left me. I need help. I cant seem to move
on with my life. I gave up everything to
move cities and be with him. We had been
together over a year and was expecting a
baby ( I already have a child too) but
miscarried at 11weeks. His mother started
making up lies about me and he believed
them and left me. I feel so hurt and
abandoned. I cant seem to get him and our
previous life out of my head, everything I
do I cant help think about him. He made so
many promises to me about our future and I
feel like it has all been taken away from
me.He has completely cut me out of his
life just like that. I cant imagine being
with anybody but him. No one seems to
understand what I am going through. I
guess I am hoping that he will come back
to me but I know deep down he wont. I just
want to feel happy and normal again.
Please help
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LuNaTiX
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Jun 2007 Posts: 13
Posted: 06-04-07 19:06pm
I'm sorry to hear about your loss, I'm
sure he was a great guy. You need to focus
on what you have right now in life, not
what you can't have. When things get down
and rough I always try to think about
those who are even worse off then me, it
helps put things in perspective I think.
You have a child to take care of, and that
child thinks the world of you im sure. You
need to find something worth living for.
When I could not get any worse, I decided
right then and there that I would live for
my friends and family and do whatever I
could to make them comfortable, regardless
of what the cost was, and im sticking to
it; this is my reason to live, my reason
to wake up, to exercise, to make money and
to do what needs to be done.
I'm not saying this will work for you
completely, but you need to try it and if
it doesn't work, you have to try something
else, untell you feel as happy as you were
while with this guy.
