Hi, I've recently begun to have sex with
my girlfriend, and I believe I have run
into the problem of P.E.. However, I'm
curious as to whether or not this problem
may take care of itself with time and
experience, or if I'm going in the right
direction by looking for other ways to
cure this problem.
I have gotten mixed responses thus far,
and am not sure what to do. At the moment,
the most reasonable things I have found
are mild antidepressants, Kegel exercises,
herbal remedies such as the one found at
www.last-long.com,
and other pills such as the one found at
www.stayerect.com
Please advise.
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HealthySex
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Jan 2007 Posts: 414
Posted: 06-03-07 21:16pm
There's a big thread on this in this
forum, "Who has severe PE..."
If you're young or new to sex, it's
possible you might just grow out of it. So
try not to let it get you down, and don't
worry about it or think about it when
having sex. Talking to your gf about it
and letting her know that you care about
her pleasure, and you're not doing it on
purpose can help. Her response will help
you relax and get passed it naturally,
without it continuing itself due to
stress.
So if you're new, let it pass. If not,
join the thread.
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winterman
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 May 2007 Posts: 4
I Suppose Not Posted: 06-04-07 20:02pm
a real p.e. is rare, most of it was
nothing but any doctor's ad.
when i had sex with my ex-gf, i took a
year and a half to get
longer. now, i have been in relationship
with my 4th gf for ten months,
evey time we were on bed, if i tried to
restrain from ejaculation, i can
keep doing for hours and hours...
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LuNaTiX
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Jun 2007 Posts: 13
Posted: 06-04-07 21:18pm
if you continue having trouble ejaculating
prematurely then you can use a technique
to hold the sperm back, which gives you
less down time.
I read about it and have used it, and it
does work.
You basicly exercise the PC muscle. This
muscle is the one used to stop peeing, you
can feel it right at the bottom of your
shaft, once you learn to control this
muscle and you are having sex, and
ejaculate, you can stimulate this muscle
for about 5 to 10 seconds or longer,
causing it to hold back the sperm. This
allows for a man to have more then one
orgasm.
Once you find the muscle and learn to use
it, its just a matter of exercise;
practice useing it when you get free time,
just start with 5 seconds and then go to
10 seconds at a time and so on and so
forth.
I don't have PE myself, I just wanted to
impress my gf at the time, and you can
last as long as you want with this
technique
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HealthySex
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Jan 2007 Posts: 414
Posted: 06-05-07 20:25pm
LuNaTIX, are you saying that you clench
your PC muscles and it physically prevents
the sperm from ejaculating? As in, kinking
the hose, so to speak?
I ask because it seems there's conflicting
info with PC exercises. Some suggest it
actually holds back ejaculation like
pinching a hose, and others suggest you
gain control over the muscles and relaxing
them prevents ejaculation from starting as
clenching them pressures the prostate and
triggers ejaculation.
