My Boyfriends Manipulative Behaviour Posted: 06-03-07 19:20pm
Im a 15 year old girl with an average ok
life.. but ever since i met my boyfriend
of 6 months ive been going through
constant worry, hate and sadness. He
spoils me and treats me like a princess,
but when he's feeling down or upset he
lashes out at me in verbal ways. Ive
found that he has very munipulative
behaviour, and power over me that i just
cant fight. I remember when he wanted
more attention, claimed he was high
maitnence and he wanted to go on a break
to make me figure out what i wanted, even
though the whole time i knew i wasnt going
to let him go. I told him i'd pay more
attention, id give him endless care and
love and i did. But as i started leaving
my friends behind and letting my grades
slip without him knowing, he slowly became
busier. Two friday's ago we went on a
break, he went to parties all weekend,
telling me he wouldnt do anything stupid
and he didnt. But, he left me at home,
alone ..my friends dont really talk to me
anymore.. i didnt bring any homework home,
i cleaned my room, watched movies and..
ate. He'll ignore me when he's busy,
he'll tell me to medical question off if
he's in the middle of something, but its
clearly obvious to everyone that im use to
it. Should i be use to this behaviour? I
love him, and everytime it gets bad, i
know it'll get better because it always
did. So when i sit at home, thinking about
where he is, and if he's thinking about me
i think it'll just get better. We'll have
sex again, and he'll relize how much he
misses me. What do i do? Everyone tells
me i need to forget about him and leave,
but i cant im hooked i love him and i cant
bare to think about not being with him.
Ive tried talking to him about it, but he
says that if i feel that way then i cant
be with him because he doesnt want to
cause me pain or greif, and he wants me to
be happy. What he doesnt understand is
that i am happy, its just im happy when
he's happy.
PLEASE HELP!!!!!!
Last edited by TheGirlfriend11 on 06-05-07 17:44pm; edited 2 times in total
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Jarian28
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Jun 2007 Posts: 7 Location: NC
Relationship Issues Posted: 06-03-07 19:43pm
It sounds like he has Anger-management
issues or something. It also kinda sounds
like he has Mood-Swings from time to time
too. Its Totally obvious that your in Love
with him, and thats Great. But speakin as
a Guy, it also sounds like he takes
advantage of knowing that you Love him
because he lashes out at you sometimes an
yet tells you that he doesnt wanna cause
you any grief.
I think that you shouldnt spend So much
Time worrying about him because its
stressin you out mentally. Its a good
thing your 15 and way young. But if he
ever hurts or hits you, I say move on
because im Sure you'd meet someone else.
