I was told to have sex every other day from day 10-15 by my fertility doctor... Hope this helps

Hey rinchan,

i havent seen u for ages I take it ur still trying to conceive as am i. I am entering month number 3 and I think im ovulating so we are just b'dancing and mick is not really thinking about a baby unlike myself, but as ive said before ur body needs to be relaxed otherwise it minimises the chances for conception. I try to have sex everyday either morning or night or both when im ovulating and afterward I cuddle up to mick and go straight to sleep that way the body is perfectly relaxed and in a great state for conception.

I hope this helps

from someone who cant wait to have a jellybean all of their own

I went back to my hometown for about 2 weeks and while I am back home I consult my doctor and have a scanning ..And thru the scanning everything seem ok doctor just asked me to relax and I also go for chinese doctor and doctor says maybe my womb is weak so I am taking a chinese medicine now ( kind of herb) and today is my 10days from my first period..So may try again next week but this time I really take it easy.... try to relax and wish me good luck . Thanks

any news from your side ?? Please let me know ...Thanks

Hey rinchan,

i feel like all us ladies in the pregnancy forum are really going through this conceiving process together so its good to have someone who understands to really talk to.

No news from my side, my first cycle after coming off the pill was 28 the second was 35 days and now it will be my third cycle and I dont really know when im due for af, which is a bit scary for me as ive always known, im hoping I go back to 28 days and if thats the case af should be here next week but im not sure.

My b'day is may 2nd so that would be the best b'day present ever, may 2nd is almost when mick and I first got together five years ago so that would be a great anniversary present for him.

Anyway heres to hoping for us, and how was ur trip away and how are those chinese herbs working for u and are they safe.

From someone who cant wait to have a jellybean all of their own

Umm I feel good with this forum at least I got someone to share with..I have a nice time when I am back to my hometown at least I can checked with my panel doctor. Well today is the 12 days of my circle.. We already did it yesterday ha..H.A.. My husband cannot wait...Well it comes naturally.Everytime my circle is a bit long so mostly I will not ovulate on the 14 days but doctor suggest that we do it alternate days.The chinese medicine is safe even if we have a baby we still can continue taking it becuase it is kind of medicine to make your womb stronger and form better. I heard from some of my friends they wish to have a baby and some of them after taking her medicine they got pregnant..So I really hope I am one of them. Wish me luck !! I feel I cannot wait any longer.....Sometimes I feel like dont want to counts the date anymore but if we didnt do so then sometimes we feel it is so wasted.......Ummmm what should we do ? Why we are so difficult to get pregnant......!!!!!!

Hey I guess its just the luck of the draw I suppose, when u consider how many days in a month we actually can get pregnant I guess its a miracle we fall pregnant at all.

Hopefully ur herbs work for u, if they do u might have to tell me what they are so I can take them. Im sure we will fall pregnant we just have to be patient, its just so disappointing when af comes. Heres to hoping for this month.

From someone who cant wait to have a jellybean all of their own