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Q: Virtual Cheatings ..... planning a Breakup.
asked by: liamfoster on June 2nd, 2007
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hi

i believe i'm going to tell you a quite amusing/tragicomic story. My girlfriend and I have been together for 6 months and we are on a long distance relationship but we managed to catch up quite often, and lately she was planning to move with me for a few months. everything great and cool. she is attractive and sort of malicious, anyways nothing wrong with that but.....

I wanted to test her and she failed miserably.......

knowing how much she likes to chat (we met ourselves online) I created a fake account, fake photos, fake everything and started to contact her asking for turistic advices about her city coz I was going to visit there with a bunch of friends. Initally she was already very friendly, we exchanged photos, and she got at once into 'me' after seing the photo.....
girls and guys.... to make a long story short.... she started a whole sexual innuendos and we ended on talking about sex, in a very very intimate way!!
She proposed to take me out for a coffe.... finally we planned an entire flirt, and at the end she even asked me for my phone number!!!!!!!! which i invented and gave her....

I still didnt tell her anything.... it happened just yesterday after all..... but I really cant keep this any longer.... I'd like so much just to call her and tell her what a w**re she is but.... I dont wanna do that.

I am planning the brake up. Any advices??
thanks a lot.
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Spirit
replied on June 2nd, 2007
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Good one!..................sorry I don't believe in the whole trust people no matter what jazz...................be glad you found out 6 months in than years later like some folks..............

..............you might try asking her to meet at a motel and see if she shows..............disguise the voice and ask her in................and there you are on the bed!...................you'll laugh about this some day!?...............not impressed with this "on line/long distance relationships" bit....................too impersonal and unreal, and everyone needs more than 6 months to get to know the real person inside Smile
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liamfoster
replied on June 3rd, 2007
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thank you for your point of view.... shall i break up with her or not , what do you think?
shall i tell her? can this virtual cheating be considered an actual one?
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Magical Logic
replied on June 3rd, 2007
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Just dont talk to her anymore. she dont care about your feelings. i would not waste my time even telling her you know what a w*ore she is.
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Spirit
replied on June 3rd, 2007
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Talkin to the opposite sex is one thing...............but she wanted a phone no.............talked sexually with a stranger.............and asked you/him out on a date?!......................and you ask if this is real cheating???.................I don't know how old you are but I suspect really young and probably what you consider your first heavy relationship............

It's sad cause your hurt...................but funny cause she got caught..............not to be too judgemental...................could you pass this test if someone pulled it on you?..............a hotter chick?............perhaps coming at a stressful/unsure moment in your relationship? someone giving you attention when you felt the other partner wasn't living up to the union?......................if you can answer these questions honestly........than perhaps you have your solution.....................to forgive or to move on Smile
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DPantelones
replied on June 4th, 2007
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Spirit wrote:
Good one!..................sorry I don't believe in the whole trust people no matter what jazz...................be glad you found out 6 months in than years later like some folks..............

..............you might try asking her to meet at a motel and see if she shows..............disguise the voice and ask her in................and there you are on the bed!...................you'll laugh about this some day!?...............not impressed with this "on line/long distance relationships" bit....................too impersonal and unreal, and everyone needs more than 6 months to get to know the real person inside Smile


DITTOS!!!!!!! Do the above and dump her on the spot. You can't trust this person now, you'll never be able to. If you stay with her, you're a fool.
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