to Tell My Doctor Your Opinion

Okay so its not the physicians fault that they no nothing about headaches, as far as research. I have been suffering for 6 years now, almost constantly, and this is supposed to be th ebest part of my life. (My story below)
And yet you see a doctor, and they always act as if your symptoms are not related - I think the 1000s of people who write on these forums are proof that the symptoms do mean something...I am sure they are doing their best with research- but usually only for meds.
And if you are me, with no insurance- you will only be prescribed meds everytime- I have literally been crying in pain at my doctors and not one has thought i need an mri (maybe they just cant refer me w.o insurance) although im not sure that something would show up- but come on there must be some structure to collect our scans and figure out what this condition is - becaus eit is not just pain....its not just stress.
Im sure weve all been told oh its caffiene, or the heat or the cold, or lack of sleep or too much sleep, or too much excersise or not enough. And its very frustrating to always be treated just as a perosn that is symptomatic of their lifestyle.
If I had chest pains like this they would test and test until they figure dotu what it was.
But like I said, maybe we all suffer form some condition(s) that they have yet to disover. We MUST b/c there is no way my leeky nose or stabbing neck that you all so perfectly describe for me is something I am a lonely complainer of.
Ill post my story next and welcome any advice, especially any diagnoissi others w/ my sympotms have got- so that maybe I will be able to save up & see a specilaist with some ideas in mind.