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help i can't feel anything during sex it's been happening since i started having sex 6 months ago i've only been while one guy and still with him we tried different positions nothing we aren't sure what is going on
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replied May 30th, 2007
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Okay.

DO you masturbate? It's pretty key. If you don't know what makes you feel good, there's really not much you can do to help your partner satisfy you; and he's not psychic so he can't tell.

There are two general kinds of stimulation that you get during sex: clitoral and vaginal. Usually, the easiest one to orgasm from is clitoral. The vaginal orgasm hasn't been exactly proven, nor has the g-spot.

I know when I have sex, having my fiancee inside of my makes my entire body shiver. It's an overwhelming feeling. There's like these tingles that shoot down my legs and up my chest. Are you saying you can't feel anything at all; like you can't even feel if you put two fingers in your vagina and moved them around? it's totally numb? Or do you mean you're not feeling what you think you should be feeling? Or maybe you feel something but it's not enjoyable?
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replied May 30th, 2012
i dont get vaginal pleasure, only clitoris.. why ?
yeah i feel it when i put two fingers in, but i just dont get the pleasure i think i sure be getting.
i dont think i can have a vaginal orgasm ive only had clitoris orgasms
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replied May 30th, 2012
I havent had either. I try to masterbate but it never works honestly I dont no how to do that. I havent had sex but my honey:) tries to pleasure me but i feel nothing. I feel their hands and touge but no enjoyment. It sucks.!Sad
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replied May 30th, 2012
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That is because your clitoris is your sex organ. It is analogous to the malepenis. Your vaginosis the birth canal, an outlet for mucus, discharge and menstrual debris, and a safe place for a man to deposit his sperm to get you pregnant. It is largely devoid of nerve endings to protect you from massive trauma during child birth.

Your clitoris is the organ in the human body (male or female) with the dentist network of nerve endings to carry the sexual signals back to your brain and give you an orgasm.

During intercourse, position yourself so that your clitoris makes contact with his body. Then grind and rub on him, or stick your fingers or a small clitoral toy down there and 'masturbate' while he is inside you.
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replied September 22nd, 2012
I have never been able to feel sex since I was sexual active and I'm now 42. I always thought sex and childbirth were over rated. I couldn't feel contractions or the babies coming out once they reached my vagina. I have to ask the doctor when to push and if it was OK to make noise while pushing...they were expecting uncontrolled screaming that never came. Anyway, while trying to lose some weight I went on a gluten free diet for a week. My sex life was born. I could want sex without having to wait for ovulation to have desire and I could feel pleasure instead of just pressure. Gluten free diet's increase blood flow to the brain and maybe my problem is low blood flow to that area. I lost the weight and stopped the diet, went back to the numbness and lack of desire to do something I can't feel and now I just get the feeling I need to urinate during sex when my bladder is empty. My husband has now joined my club...can have an erection and ejaculate but can't feel anything...guess it's contagious. Are we broken physically or just mentally. We love each other and vow to fix each other but don't know how our doctor's see nothing physically wrong with either of us and think we need a shrink.
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replied May 30th, 2007
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I know when I have sex, having my fiancee inside of my makes my entire body shiver. It's an overwhelming feeling. There's like these tingles that shoot down my legs and up my chest. Are you saying you can't feel anything at all; like you can't even feel if you put two fingers in your vagina and moved them around? it's totally numb? Or do you mean you're not feeling what you think you should be feeling? Or maybe you feel something but it's not enjoyable?



i can't feel anything during masterbation either i'm bought vibraters everything like i can feel that its there but other then that nothing
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replied May 30th, 2007
Hey
I'm the same way. I feel nothing. It sucks.
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replied May 30th, 2007
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So you're not numb, but you get no sexual pleasure from it? If so, you are not alone. Many women have trouble enjoying sex or having an orgasm. Some women do not have a very sensitive clitoris, so stimulating the clitoris does not do much of anything.
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replied May 30th, 2007
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One thing I like to add when I see posts like this, is something I've read about Histamine levels. I don't know much about it, but have read in a couple different places that Histamine levels can affect men and women's abilities to achieve orgasm. High levels make it easy, and low levels make it difficult.

A doctor could check your levels and perhaps recommend treatment. If he/she doesn't know what to do, you could look into some supplements, specifically amino acids. Histamine is created from the amino acid Histadine, so supplementing with that may help increase it. The amino acid Methionine may actually prevent the creation of Histamine. I don't remember in which fashion, but Vitamin C also affects Histamine I believe.

If you have no success from trying to relax, toys, masturbation, etc. you might want to go to a doctor and make sure nothing is wrong. And if nothing works or is found, perhaps ask about Histamine.
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replied June 1st, 2007
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Do you get aroused ever? If you do get aroused but just aren't able to reach orgasm, that is probably just not knowing yet what works for you.... I get no joy at all out of masturbating, and when he fingers me or oral it feels good but I never orgasm. I only orgasm from vaginal sex. I don't know what it is that stimulates me and when I feel around myself, I feel nothing. If you try many different things and nothing works, I would seek a sex therapist.

However, if you don't even get aroused, you should get your hormone levels checked. (Specifically testosterone). That could mean a whole lot of other problems and needs to get checked by the doc.
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replied March 8th, 2009
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I can't feel anything sometimes and it's freaking me out , ! I don't know if this would ruin our relationship , I want good sex , but we get bored too ! We tried so many positions , and most of them , we can't use them because I don't feel ANYTHING . Like he's inside me , but I won't get the feeling I need to have to orgasm Sad Ahh .. This sucks ! When he fingures me, I EXPLODE . That's not a problem , But the rest , is so .. boring even though I like it sometimes . I want to do the job sometimes , but there's like whatt .. rare positions for the girl to use ! I like when he does all the work , but goshh sometimes I want to work too ! l0llll Want to I do ... ! I want to feel it ! And I want to enjoy again !
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replied March 13th, 2009
I have exactly the same problem.

He gets aroused very easily, which arouses me. But when it comes to any kind of stimulation, it just doesn't feel good. I don't feel pain, I just simply feel my own finger/his/his penis inside me, and I derive no pleasure from it.
I feel bad, because he's always keen for sex, but knows that I don't enjoy it.

I try masturbation, but it really doesn't do anything for me.

It's not as though I have no sex drive, because I do, and it's quite high. Is it just that I'm doing it wrong to myself? If that was the case, how come I also feel nothing when he fingers me, or when we have sex?

I REALLY want enjoyable sex.
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replied March 13th, 2009
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replied January 17th, 2012
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Hello my name is Brandi and I have been with my boyfriend for 10 years and I have never been able to feel anything while having sex. I know something is in there but no pleasure at all. But I do feel something when I masterbate. I even climax. What is wrong with me. I have never been molested but i did mess with myself at an early age. I think age 5. Please help.
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replied April 6th, 2012
I Cant feel anything during sex
Yes this this sounds like me how could I get help???? During sex I cant feel anything not his fingers nor his penis so it makes it very hard for me to get wet or for me to enjoy it I havent told anyone about this because im to embarresed but im tired of not being able to enjoy sex with my boyfriend it sucks the only feeling I get is from my clitoris but i have not sexual pleasure or stimulation from my vagina i need help soon!!!!!
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replied April 9th, 2012
Can't feel anything):
Hi I have been having sex for 5 years but I dont feel anything. I get wet but no feeling. We have retired everything but nothing. I dont want to die not knowing what sex feels like. Plz help. ):
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replied June 22nd, 2009
cant feel anything during sex!
if ur in love with ur partner and hes the only guy u have had sex with and he isnt small down there and u cant feel anything during sex than MAYBE its cuz ur first time ever having sex u were scared or it was really painfull that while youll were doing it u were more concentrated on that then oh its gonna be great or its gonna feel real good that ur emotions for that switched? so i think what u have to do is dont have sex again till ur tight again then try again but this time instead of worring just be horny first so u can want it than of course its gonna hurt again but try not to think about the pain and MAYBE this time u will feel something!..and idk if not using a condom will make it easier or using a condom will make it easier? but idk just trying to help!
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replied September 19th, 2009
I don't know what to do. I am 16 and my bf is 15 and him and i have been having sex for about a month or two now and the sex was really good until two days ago he isnt small and we have tried different things i feel it but only 40% of the time and its sad cause i dont kno wats wrong with me and i dont kno why is has changed all of a sudden Sad i want to go back to having good sex i cant even rlly feel in during anal either and tht bothers me too i can feel the pressure on my body and hips and feel the sensitivity on the outside around the vag. but i cant feel his penis for the most part :S Sad
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replied November 29th, 2009
I Can Feel Anything Either... =(
Yea so... i thought something was wrong with me... But i can c now that im not alone. I can never feel anything when i have sex nor when i try to masturbate.. I mean i can get turned on and wet really easily, but nothing ever happends.. I'll have sex and i dont feel anything... I'll use my fingers or a toy and i still dont feel anything. I can feel my fingers or him inside me but thats it.. no pleasure or anything.. and i really want to be able to experience it with my boyfriend when its time. but please help me.. i really wanna feel it and orgasm.. Please
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replied March 24th, 2010
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I can't feel andythong inside of me I just got a vibrator and it works great on my clit but I can't feel the vibrations internally at all. Is there sonehobg wrong with me?? Help!!!
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replied March 29th, 2010
i'm the same i can feel his penis and my fingers inside me but i dont feel any plessure..or pain!! i need help!! i want to be able to enjoy sex but now i just find it boring!! i get aroused realy easily and can make myself orgasam my rubbing my clit but i dont get any vaginal feeling!! please can somebody help me!!
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replied May 11th, 2010
no pleasure! :(
i have the same; i can feel his fingers/tongue/penis inside of me but i don''t get any pleasure AT ALL from it and its really making me upset about it, whats wrong with me? and i have to fake really enjoying it with my boyfriend, so he thinks i love it. he knows i''ve never orgasmed but not that i don''t get any pleasure at all. Sad
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replied May 27th, 2010
can people stop keep sayin same thing andd give a solutions bcuz we no da problem we need a solution
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replied June 8th, 2010
:/ This makes me feel screwed up.

I can't feel him or anything else in me, I can only orgasm through penetration. But, well... that's difficult because I can't feel him in me. We've only tried a few positions though, this is the only guy I've been with. But it's not like it's my first time. But is there anything that might work?
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replied June 9th, 2010
i think she's not satisfied on what her partner do to her.
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replied June 24th, 2010
HelpppppD:
I know I'm too young to have sex, but
my bf is my first and we actually had sex a couple days ago
at first it hurt so i told him to stop then the next day we tried it again and it hurt a little bit then I realized that I could barely feel him.
and we werent using a condom so he was holding back from cumming and i can only feel it then when he flexes it.
But it like kinda hurts but feels good at the same time.
And he isnt small at all, and it sucks cause now I have another problem with my vag.
Cause I can get turned on by him and i get really wet when he is inside me, but I still don't feel anything.
and I'm nervous as crap, cause I want to know what sex feels like. So blah. Any help? is there like non perscrition medicine i can take to make my vag for sensitive? God. Help. D:
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replied April 6th, 2012
@_alayla. when yo are a virgin and youu first start having sex and your young, it wont feel good until your body matures. that's why it's good to wait until your body matures. then when you start having sex again you will notice that you feel what it feels like to enjoy sex. I'm talking bout wait until 17 or 18 not 14 or 15.your not missing anything. so don't rush to have sex. just wait, with your boyfriend. really enjoy the time you are spending around each other and when the age come you would be in love and the sex would be amazing. hope it helps Smile
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