Im Bulimic And I Need Help.. Please Posted: 05-29-07 03:07am
i only been doing this for a couple of
days but i did it be fore....im 13, i
weigh 158lbs 5'3, im bulimic... but i dont
mean to i try very hard to lose weight..
im sick of seeing all my friends being so
perfect. i wanted it to be my turn. so i
turned bulimic...how much weight..have any
one else lost. im misserable i would stop
when i lost like 30lbs, i know it would be
hard, but i would get treatment, i need
someones advice, please help me
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v00d00cita
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Re: Im Bulimic And I Need Help.. Please Posted: 05-29-07 03:23am
sherryonly
wrote:
i only been doing this for a
couple of days but i did it be fore....im
13, i weigh 158lbs 5'3, im bulimic... but
i dont mean to i try very hard to lose
weight.. im sick of seeing all my friends
being so perfect. i wanted it to be my
turn. so i turned bulimic...how much
weight..have any one else lost. im
misserable i would stop when i lost like
30lbs, i know it would be hard, but i
would get treatment, i need someones
advice, please help me
Dear,
you are taking important steps by
admitting that you actually have a problem
and what that problem is. Now you're
closer to getting cured. It takes a lot
from you, but you can make it happen, ok?
You're not overweight, you're not even
heavy! And you don't need to be perfect or
better than all the other people - you
what valuable for yourself! :*
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sherryonly
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Joined: 29 May 2007 Posts: 8 Location: california
Posted: 05-29-07 03:37am
thank you so much.. i wish i could
stop...i know it could harm me very
badd...! but im not sure how and.. its
just i hate being called fat and ugly.. so
if i become skinny i will only have to
worry about being ugly right?
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v00d00cita
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Posted: 05-29-07 03:46am
Hmm it's not so easy. You'd get skinner
and then it would never be enough. You'd
always want more. So, the best you can do
is stop now and convince yourself that you
are beautiful, regular, fine
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breeanna
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Joined: 01 Oct 2005 Posts: 79
Posted: 06-02-07 18:29pm
hi love. i have binge purge anorexia so i
know exactly how it feels to be caught in
the cycle. its horrible, absolutely
horrible. you would know the feelings you
get when you binge and purge.. how much do
you actually want to feel like this? you
might think that its worth it in the long
run, but living life is what life is
about. live for NOW. capture the moment
NOW.
there are always going to be people around
you calling others ugly and fat. instead
of trying to change YOU, realise that THEY
are the ones who have issues and feel they
have to put others down. surround yourself
with ones who make you feel beautiful and
amazing and that protect you from nasty
people like the ones who were insulting
you.
what you can do to stop:
speak to someone you trust and tell them
... like a parent, older relative, help
line, youth worker, school counseller.
they will advise you [hopefully!] on the
best option for you.
if you feel you cant tell anyone face to
face, maybe a phone call or the internet
would work for you.
capture the moment and live for now.
x
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soldierswifey
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Joined: 10 Nov 2007 Posts: 225 Location: , ny usa
Posted: 11-20-07 19:13pm
good luck...dont let people bring you down
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pebbles07
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Joined: 28 Nov 2007 Posts: 37 Location: ,
Posted: 11-30-07 19:59pm
U said this time it's only been a couple
of days so quiting will be easier for u.
If I were u I would tell whoever u live
with so they can watch how much u eat and
if u purge. U can loose weight a lot of
better ways. With bulimia the acids from
throwing up rot ur teeth, ur face and skin
get nasty and u always stink, so do u want
to be the pale, dry girl with the bad
breath and no teeth? I don't think so,
also women who purge can't have babies in
the future. U destroy ur stomach pancreas
all that stuff so look for good insurance
if u plan to continue. GET HELP NOW! U can
start on ur own don't go stuffing ur face
eat healthy normal meals slowly.
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kinseygirl
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Joined: 13 Dec 2007 Posts: 2
Re:im Bulimic And I Need Help ...please Posted: 12-13-07 17:03pm
I was bulimic for many years. I am 47
years old now. It started when I was 21
years old. After much counseling . I
realized that it is not about weight at
all. It is the need to be loved wanted
and appreciated for who we are. So no
amount of weight ever lost will accomplish
that. Not easy to believe this once the
bulimia has taken control. What starts out
with losing a little weight turns into a
self mind game. You decieve yourself into
believing that this disorder defines your
self worth.. Learn to care and love
yourself . No matter what. That is the
major goal for you. Be around POSITIVE
people. Be a giving person to others and
you will be o.k..... Stop now before it
takes hold of you.... Best wishes
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Candice W.
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Dec 2007 Posts: 2
Ok Posted: 12-21-07 12:57pm
6 small meals a day will boost your
metabolism.
Eat lots of veggies and work out.
Youtube.com has all sorts of excerise
videos. I am a fan of 8 minute legs.
I too suffer from eating disorders. I
work and struggle everyday to not fall
back into it.
You don't want to be 20 getting brought
into the ER because you decided it would
be a good idea to take a laxative, shove
your finger down your throat after not
eating or drinking anything for four days.
Let me tell you it's not fun. That was my
lowest point. On top of that I was
pregnant. Eating disorders are not fun and
they follow you through your whole life.
It is a dark black life you are trying to
start. Stop before you get too bad.
Get help!!! That is my advice.
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baybiinaytii
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Oct 2007 Posts: 8 Location: Dorset, England
Posted: 12-21-07 15:54pm
Hiya,
Im also seeking advice so I know how you
feel. Because You haven't been doing this
for long stop while you can. Please get
help because it is serious...all very well
saying you wil stop after a time but when
you get there you will say you will stop
soon and it will keep on going on and on.
I know because I have seen it happen to a
friend and to myself. Tell someone you can
trust and they can support you and help
you. Well done for accepting you need help
i know it's not easy so well done!
Good Luck.
Write back .x.
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Azuki
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Dec 2007 Posts: 14 Location: , UK
Posted: 12-21-07 16:26pm
Being bulimic isn't going to help you
loose weight, just make you very ill and
you will end up in hospital fighting for
your life if it gets out of control. And
becoming skinny isn't really going to
solve much.
I used to be always called fat and ugly
and I've always been smaller than a UK
size 8, if I were you, try and ignore
those people, it can be hard and it does
get to you. If you feel like you're
overweight, loose weight the healthy way,
that way you will be able to keep at that
weight without the need to starve yourself
of the luxuries which others may not be
fortuante to have. And if you work hard
enough to loose that weight you want to
loose, the final result will be more
rewarding =)
