So here is the story. I had a one night stand. Actually it's up to 2 night stands right now. I keep on referring to it as one night stand but really we went out twice before anything happened. Still, I really did not hold out for too long...Anyhow, I was really attracted to him and I really just wanted to have sex, didn't think about having a relationship with him or anything like that. Granted, the first time he "attacked me" and since he is very muscular, I really could not fight him off and before I knew it, it was over. The second time, it was my initiative.

Here is my question: can anything ever become of it?

I think our backgrounds/lifestyles are way too different for a successful relationship but I would like to continue to have a sexual relationship with him. How do I steer this relationship to get want I want out of it.

He is very handsome, bartender, personal trainer and has many friends that are girls...