My Baby Will Not Let Me Enjoy Sex ! Posted: 05-28-07 11:07am
Hello I am new to the board and I wanted
to post this for anyone who is pregnant or
can relate to this problem.
Okay I am 5 months pregnant and I have
been having this problem since the
beginning of my 4th month.
Every time my husband and I start being
intimate my baby kicks alot, I cant even
enjoy being intimate without my baby
hurting me.
We've tried different positions and
different methods (even masturbating me)
every time we are in the middle of being
intimate the baby goes crazy and starts
kicking harder.
This frustrates my husband because we
have to stop every 10 minutes to change
positions so that I can get comfortable.
I don't know if my baby can feel it when
we are intimate or not, but I've heard
that when a woman has an orgasm the
muscles down there squeezes the baby.
Well I have not had an orgasm in almost a
month and a half so I don't know why my
baby is acting this way. It's like he/she
doesn't want anyone touching me.
It's very frustrating to me when I have to
pretend that I am enjoying sex just to
please my husband.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 05-28-07 16:52pm
It may be a change of position is causing
this. Does your baby kick you when you lay
down for sleep? Adjusting your position
may help. Have you tried masturbating
white sitting up.
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nightangel73
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Posted: 05-28-07 17:41pm
i wouldn't pretend anything if I were you.
I would talk to him and tell him what's
going on and just be honest. It's part of
the pregnancy process so it will go away
soon. Only 4 more months.
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flipper
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Posted: 05-28-07 18:22pm
It's been several years since I've been
pregnant, but I do remember that anytime I
got all excited, my baby would get excited
too. I have to admit though that she
didn't freak out when my husband and I had
sex. I don't know, maybe the baby could
be soothed somehow before you guys start
messing around? Like music maybe? lol,
other than that I'm tapped out on this
one. I'm betting the ladies in the
pregnancy forums can help you out a lot
more.
