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Q: Advice Need...3'soms...r&r Asap!!!

asked by: angelbaby_23 on February 25th, 2004

New User

What do you guys think of three somes? 2 girls and a guy? I told my man I was curious about being with another girl more than making out, and he wants me to find another girl and have a three some. I want to, but im scared he'll be with her more and I dont want him another girl. I cant stand the idea of sharing him at all. I want to do stuff by myself, not with him there. I mean he can watch, but I dont really feel comfortable having join in. What do you guys think, am I being paraniod? What if he thinks that I am ok with him being with another girl and he goes out and cheats on me, or wants it all the time? Especially because right now I am pg and dont look so hot now, and if we do this it will be after I have our baby and I dont know if I will get the body I use to have back. I use to have a hella nice body, then I got pg... Please give your opinion, and girls if you were in my situation what would you do??? Guys what do you think???

Replies(8)

SweetCheeki17

replied on February 25th, 2004

Experienced User

Hello,

heres my opinion about 3'some... However it can be more fun and thrilling but there is consquences with in it. Risk of getting std/hivs/ and etcs also pregnancy. I heard that alot of couple who done threesome could lose over another women or guy. I suggest you not to do it because you could lose a person that you love and enjoy spending time with. So you need to think about it and its really up to you but you need to make your decision with a risk along with it. I hope you understand this.

ForeverDreaming0712

replied on February 25th, 2004

New User

If you aren't comfortable with it, don't do it. You might end up regreting it seriously and then drive your self crazy.

Amberlee123

replied on February 27th, 2004

Experienced User

I agree with the both above. It sounds like something that should just stay a fantasy. Even if he doesnt go out and cheat or ask for it again and again you could still drive yourself nuts with the insecure after thoughts. It could tear you apart.

teacherspet3569

replied on October 25th, 2004

New User

3 Somes

I have had a three some with my best friend and her husband. We had both expressed interest in experimenting with each other and he (of course) was all for it. We discussed rules for it for about 2 weeks. We talked about feelings and told each other any one of us could say stop at any time if we got uncomfortable. Since we all agreed, it was an incredible experience. It has not made her or I gay and I don't think I am going to do it ever again, but it was an interesting experiment and she said it has heightened their enjoyment in the bedroom. We are still best friends.

jessamyn

replied on October 25th, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

Paul hates this idea hahah I told him id have a three some howeveerrr never with a boyfriend or husband hahah hes like i'm doomed seriously i'm with you id either get massively jealous or massively insecure. I dont think i'd be able to see him touching her or her touching him I mean i'd loose it. I'm not a jealous person I just wouldnt be able to handle that seriously! Sad

kitty2luv

replied on October 25th, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

I Would

I would have one either with 2 guys and me or me and another girl and 1 guy but it cant be some chick or guy I dont know do u kno the ppl ?

BADSAL

replied on October 25th, 2004

Experienced User

If you find another girl and mess around without letting him join in- wouldn't that be considered cheating?

PosrscheLvr

replied on October 25th, 2004

Experienced User

First off I think you answered your own question already. You said you don't like to share, that is your answer then. Never do anything you are not 100% comfortable with. If your guy isn't happy with just you then maybe you should look for some more worth your time who will treat you right.

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