What do you guys think of three somes? 2
girls and a guy? I told my man I was
curious about being with another girl more
than making out, and he wants me to find
another girl and have a three some. I
want to, but im scared he'll be with her
more and I dont want him !@#^ing another
girl. He says he wont put it in her, but
I cant stand the idea of sharing him at
all. I want to do stuff by myself, not
with him there. I mean he can watch, but
I dont really feel comfortable having join
in. What do you guys think, am I being
paraniod? What if he thinks that I am ok
with him being with another girl and he
goes out and cheats on me, or wants it all
the time? Especially because right now I
am pg and dont look so hot now, and if we
do this it will be after I have our baby
and I dont know if I will get the body I
use to have back. I use to have a hella
nice body, then I got pg... Please give
your opinion, and girls if you were in my
situation what would you do??? Guys what
do you think???
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SweetCheeki17
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Jan 2004 Posts: 268 Location: new york
Posted: 02-25-04 12:41pm
Hello,
heres my opinion about 3'some... However
it can be more fun and thrilling but there
is consquences with in it. Risk of
getting std/hivs/ and etcs also pregnancy.
I heard that alot of couple who done
threesome could lose over another women or
guy. I suggest you not to do it because
you could lose a person that you love and
enjoy spending time with. So you need to
think about it and its really up to you
but you need to make your decision with a
risk along with it. I hope you understand
this.
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ForeverDreaming0712
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Sep 2003 Posts: 35 Location: Cocoa
Posted: 02-25-04 15:25pm
If you aren't comfortable with it, don't
do it. You might end up regreting it
seriously and then drive your self crazy.
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Amberlee123
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Dec 2003 Posts: 185 Location: Tennessee
Posted: 02-27-04 12:21pm
I agree with the both above. It sounds
like something that should just stay a
fantasy. Even if he doesnt go out and
cheat or ask for it again and again you
could still drive yourself nuts with the
insecure after thoughts. It could tear
you apart.
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teacherspet3569
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Oct 2004 Posts: 3 Location: Kentucky
3 Somes Posted: 10-25-04 07:08am
I have had a three some with my best
friend and her husband. We had both
expressed interest in experimenting with
each other and he (of course) was all for
it. We discussed rules for it for about
2 weeks. We talked about feelings and
told each other any one of us could say
stop at any time if we got uncomfortable.
Since we all agreed, it was an incredible
experience. It has not made her or I gay
and I don't think I am going to do it ever
again, but it was an interesting
experiment and she said it has heightened
their enjoyment in the bedroom. We are
still best friends.
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jessamyn
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Joined: 18 Aug 2004 Posts: 4107 Location: San Diego, CA
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Posted: 10-25-04 12:12pm
Paul hates this idea hahah I told him id
have a three some howeveerrr never with a
boyfriend or husband hahah hes like i'm
doomed seriously i'm with you id either
get massively jealous or massively
insecure. I dont think i'd be able to see
him touching her or her touching him I
mean i'd loose it. I'm not a jealous
person I just wouldnt be able to handle
that seriously!
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kitty2luv
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Oct 2004 Posts: 1089 Location: with my love
I Would Posted: 10-25-04 12:16pm
I would have one either with 2 guys and me
or me and another girl and 1 guy but it
cant be some chick or guy I dont know do u
kno the ppl ?
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BADSAL
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Sep 2004 Posts: 257 Location: PA
Posted: 10-25-04 12:29pm
If you find another girl and mess around
without letting him join in- wouldn't that
be considered cheating?
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PosrscheLvr
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Oct 2004 Posts: 304 Location: Plano, Texas
Posted: 10-25-04 17:08pm
First off I think you answered your own
question already. You said you don't like
to share, that is your answer then. Never
do anything you are not 100% comfortable
with. If your guy isn't happy with just
you then maybe you should look for some
more worth your time who will treat you
right.
